The reactions here are amusing since the legal age of consent is 15 in my country and I had sex when I was 16.5 with a guy that was 19. Do I feel abused? Absolutely not, if anything I was the one using him to get laid.
Everything but the fact that you seemed to fancy her even when she was nine is perfectly normal even though I would not go for such an age difference myself I know plenty of young women who would love themselves an older male.
I say keep in touch, talk to her more and If I were you I would encourage her to see other people because truthfully I am not the same person I was when I was sixteen, there's a lot of things going on on a teenagers mind and body.
She isnt for having sex, as she isnt a rebellious or a capricious girl. She's a very special person.
I didnt fancy her at age 9, I just felt...different. Like I say, there is something magical/spiritual about her. I saw her as a child with a very mature heart and mind.
But now that she's older, she is still innocent, but she is far more "womanly" and grown up. She is very pretty, she has a beautiful figure, but that doesnt stand out. What stands out is the way she is, her eyes, her character....it all on the inside.
I will let her be young, encourage her to have a vision for her life and make an effort to go forward.
But, you know what? She doesnt want to climb mountains, work at a corporation, study to be a scientist: she seems the kinda girl that want one thing: love. To love and be loved.
IIN that I have feelings for a girl, who is half my age?
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The reactions here are amusing since the legal age of consent is 15 in my country and I had sex when I was 16.5 with a guy that was 19. Do I feel abused? Absolutely not, if anything I was the one using him to get laid.
Everything but the fact that you seemed to fancy her even when she was nine is perfectly normal even though I would not go for such an age difference myself I know plenty of young women who would love themselves an older male.
I say keep in touch, talk to her more and If I were you I would encourage her to see other people because truthfully I am not the same person I was when I was sixteen, there's a lot of things going on on a teenagers mind and body.
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I think you understand our situation.
She isnt for having sex, as she isnt a rebellious or a capricious girl. She's a very special person.
I didnt fancy her at age 9, I just felt...different. Like I say, there is something magical/spiritual about her. I saw her as a child with a very mature heart and mind.
But now that she's older, she is still innocent, but she is far more "womanly" and grown up. She is very pretty, she has a beautiful figure, but that doesnt stand out. What stands out is the way she is, her eyes, her character....it all on the inside.
I will let her be young, encourage her to have a vision for her life and make an effort to go forward.
But, you know what? She doesnt want to climb mountains, work at a corporation, study to be a scientist: she seems the kinda girl that want one thing: love. To love and be loved.
Thats the way I see her.
Thank you and God bless.