The disturbing thing is you have allowed yourself to fall for a teenage girl. A normal, rational person would not do such a thing! Let it go. If she's half your age, then it just wasn't meant to be.
"I dont find my feelings disturbing."
Well, you should. Listen, this is a teenage girl and you are a middle-aged man. The two of you being in any romantic relationship whatsoever shouldn't be in the realm of your possibilities in the first place, therefore you are incompatible for each other. I'm trying to tell you this isn't right! Regardless of what your feelings are for her right now, you gotta move on and let it go.
If you are already set in your ways, then I don't know why you're looking for advice. I have told you what the "morally right" thing to do is, and I'm certain I'm correct on this. That's all I can tell you. It's up to you now. I'm hoping you make the right decision.
You call me a "middle aged man". You made me laugh.
You think Im what? A man who is short sighted, has a weird look on his face and wears very neat, but outdated, clothing? Oh, and I keep sweets in my pocket at all times.
Im laughing as I write this. Do I look like this, do I?
http://goo.gl/zAt7bQ
Anyway. I have already stated that Im only 30. Not only that, I dont look 30. I have boyish looks, Im young at heart and am not a "creep".
As I mentioned to another user:
If your a genius, dont finish college earlier than others?
Same thing goes with girls/women who are mature in their femininity and womanhood.
I talked to a Mexican at our local deli, I mentioned the situation without letting him know it was me. With a surprised look on his face he said "And whats wrong with that? If theres no malice and she loves the guy, whats all the fuss about?"
Here in this country, we complicate things, too much.
We must abide my the law, and thats what I am doing.
Anything outside of that, is her business and mine.
Ok maybe I got carried away with the "middle-aged" part, so I apologize for putting you in that category when maybe I shouldn't have. I still stand by my point strongly.
You say you're not a creep, but this situation is very "creepy". Whether you wanna accept it or not, you're a "creep", and not right in the head. You will be judged this way by most for good reason because this type of thing is considered immoral in our society.
Like I said, at the end of the day, it's your life, your decision, and you will have to face the consequence of whatever you do. Thank you for at least taking my opinion into account.
IIN that I have feelings for a girl, who is half my age?
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The disturbing thing is you have allowed yourself to fall for a teenage girl. A normal, rational person would not do such a thing! Let it go. If she's half your age, then it just wasn't meant to be.
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I dont find my feelings disturbing.
Once again, please, stop pairing sexual desire to feelings of love, affection and care.
It doesn't surprise me that people, in this day and age, think everything has to do with sex.
I feel love for her, true love.
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"I dont find my feelings disturbing."
Well, you should. Listen, this is a teenage girl and you are a middle-aged man. The two of you being in any romantic relationship whatsoever shouldn't be in the realm of your possibilities in the first place, therefore you are incompatible for each other. I'm trying to tell you this isn't right! Regardless of what your feelings are for her right now, you gotta move on and let it go.
If you are already set in your ways, then I don't know why you're looking for advice. I have told you what the "morally right" thing to do is, and I'm certain I'm correct on this. That's all I can tell you. It's up to you now. I'm hoping you make the right decision.
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I replied with a detailed answer, but the comment disappeared. I cant be bothered writing it all over again.
I will take your words into account.
You call me a "middle aged man". You made me laugh.
You think Im what? A man who is short sighted, has a weird look on his face and wears very neat, but outdated, clothing? Oh, and I keep sweets in my pocket at all times.
Im laughing as I write this. Do I look like this, do I?
http://goo.gl/zAt7bQ
Anyway. I have already stated that Im only 30. Not only that, I dont look 30. I have boyish looks, Im young at heart and am not a "creep".
As I mentioned to another user:
If your a genius, dont finish college earlier than others?
Same thing goes with girls/women who are mature in their femininity and womanhood.
I talked to a Mexican at our local deli, I mentioned the situation without letting him know it was me. With a surprised look on his face he said "And whats wrong with that? If theres no malice and she loves the guy, whats all the fuss about?"
Here in this country, we complicate things, too much.
We must abide my the law, and thats what I am doing.
Anything outside of that, is her business and mine.
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Ok maybe I got carried away with the "middle-aged" part, so I apologize for putting you in that category when maybe I shouldn't have. I still stand by my point strongly.
You say you're not a creep, but this situation is very "creepy". Whether you wanna accept it or not, you're a "creep", and not right in the head. You will be judged this way by most for good reason because this type of thing is considered immoral in our society.
Like I said, at the end of the day, it's your life, your decision, and you will have to face the consequence of whatever you do. Thank you for at least taking my opinion into account.