I suggest you stay in touch with her and pursue your career. Come back in a couple of years and date her. Don't forget that right now she is sixteen, a teenager. Tomorrow she might meet another guy and fall in love. You obviously want more than just flirting with her. The best thing to do is wait. Wait until she's a grown woman. She'll understand her feelings for you better.
And by the way I'm not shocked by your age gap or the fact that she's sixteen. At seventeen I was dating a thirty-four old man. And I've always dated older man since then, except for some exceptions.
IIN that I have feelings for a girl, who is half my age?
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I suggest you stay in touch with her and pursue your career. Come back in a couple of years and date her. Don't forget that right now she is sixteen, a teenager. Tomorrow she might meet another guy and fall in love. You obviously want more than just flirting with her. The best thing to do is wait. Wait until she's a grown woman. She'll understand her feelings for you better.
And by the way I'm not shocked by your age gap or the fact that she's sixteen. At seventeen I was dating a thirty-four old man. And I've always dated older man since then, except for some exceptions.
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I have thought about waiting, giving her space.
My inner fear is that she will feel I am gone, lost interest and then opt for a guy at school or in her circle of friends.
I admit to wanting more than flirt, but that doesnt mean my feelings are sexual in nature. Im not like that.
Thank you for your advice.
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Oh, sorry. When I said that you wanted more than flirting I was not thinking about sex. I meant that you wanted to build a relationship.
Good Luck!
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Thank you!