Is it normal that i have a desire to get my ass fucked as i'm a straight man

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I'm a 40 years old straight man and married from last 3 years. Before marriage I had a 4 years relationship and that was amazing as we both were crazy in bed. She used to do lot of oral which I love to give & receive. Once she gave me rimjob and I loved it like anything and slowly she started to insert her finger in my anus which made me so horny. Slowly we started to explore more and become crazy in bed like talking dirty, rimjobs and light bondage etc. We were planning to have strapon as I explored more of my side and I became desperate for it.

Due to some reasons we separated and Now I am married to someone else. My sex life is not as great as I had as my wife doesn't like too much of sex and we do like 1 time a week or more. As I used to have lot of kinky desires and my ex was fulfilling it, Now I am getting crazy to get all that again. I want to get my ass fucked but not from any man, I like to be starop or sometimes I have fantasies of shemales or trannies. I am getting crazy, not sure if this is normal. Sometimes I finger my ass and little pain makes me feel happy. I can't share my desires with my wife, don't know how she gonna take this if I try to share. Any suggestions would be helpful and let me know if I'm normal.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    Why the hell did you marry someone you don't share similar interests with? I'm surprised it's lasted 3 years, and I would suspect your marriage is bound to fail.

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  • redfastlad
    6 years ago

    lube dildo both will work inflatable dildo for when you get used to things going up there, I have made an electrical powered fuck machine that knocks seven bells out of my arse but only use it rarely as the soreness lasts for days, its your prostrate that likes the stimulation, don't blame your wife.

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  • Fundav
    6 years ago

    I take one up my butt hole.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Boy, you ain't straight.

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  • June_lynn
    7 years ago

    Normal. Although my BF and I have not done this yet, it's a huge turn on to want to watch a cock go in and out of his ass.

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  • _Mehhhh_
    7 years ago

    I don't know if it's gay.

    There's more to a man than just a penis. If you like the idea of having something thrusted into your ass, but you're otherwise not sexually attracted to any other male bodyparts, you're not really "gay".

    I would totally date a transgender man who still has a vagina if I found him attractive and we got on well, that doesn't make me straight all of a sudden.

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  • walkingdildo
    7 years ago

    You need to be honest with and talk to your wife.

    If you don't, she is not married to the person she thinks she is and the marriage can only be miserable.

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  • Friesbaconnekkid
    7 years ago

    I was fifty before I thought of having a cock in my ass. After trying it, I found I really enjoy it. A dildo definitely does not feel as good as a real cock. Once a cock is inside of you, it easily goes in and out, while the skin and condom reduce the friction immensely. Another great plus, is you feel the cock grow harder and larger as a man cums inside of you, that can't be duplicated with a dildo. I'm now 62, and take a cock in my ass at every opportunity, I love being fucked.

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  • randypete
    7 years ago

    get a strapon and get your wife to use it on you

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  • SplendidDuck279
    7 years ago

    There's actually a gland in your butthole that induces pleasure, so you're just craving something your past lover used to do. Although, the desire to specifically be fucked by a man (utilizing his penis) would be unusual, due to the fact that you are married to a woman. But if it's just a desire to feel that same pleasure you did when you're past lover did those things to your butthole, then yes, I would consider that normal. You can always just talk to your wife and say, "Hey, I heard there's this trick about men and how there's this gland in there butthole that induces pleasure if caressed(?) Wanna see if it's true?" *cue seductive eyebrow wiggle* You're welcome.

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    • Man40
      7 years ago

      Thank you! I will try to talk with my wife and give some hint and see how it goes :)

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  • Holzman_67
    7 years ago

    I think you need to stop labelling your sexuality. Explore your fetishes if you will, but claiming to be of one sexuality as you do it will only confuse your mind and identity.
    Time for cake and sodomy.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      "Cake and sodomy" makes think of an English boarding school.

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  • FORUMidableFucker
    7 years ago

    Another secret FAG. Not surprised.

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  • icant_
    7 years ago

    Raindrops on roses and dildos in assholes.

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago

    I agree with the second suggestion. Just get a dildo.

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  • ben_dover
    7 years ago

    Gay blade flamer

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  • kla631
    7 years ago

    Get a dildo

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  • NeilYounger
    7 years ago

    Normal? Fuck no and you know that. Solution? A quick visit to an adult sex novelty shop where you can buy a strap-on and lube. Then a casual drive along the local hooker's stroll late at night where you will find a variety of fun loving freaks willing to fulfill your chronic desires for a small fee. Then a quick trip to a nearby crack whore motel that rents sleeze rooms by the hour. Oh, and don't worry about the totally lame excuse you'll give your wife to explain your absence: you'll think of something. Thus, problem solved. Your welcome.

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