IIN that I got so wet?

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  • tl,dr: People vary a lot, your sexual response in any situation is normal for you, and your soaking wet gusset is not weird at all.

    Our body's physical response to sexual stimuli is controlled by a primitive part of our brain that we can't consciously control. Guys can't think, "Right, I need to get hard now," and have a stiffy instantly appear, and women can't think, "I need to get ready for sex now," and instantly get wet. What actually happens is that guys get erections in situations where they're inappropriate and very embarrassing, and women can find it weird how their vaginas lubricate in situations which the rational part of their brain doesn't find appealing at all. Conversely, guys can very much want to have sex but not be hard, and women can want to have sex and not get wet.

    Bottom line is that you have no more control over how wet your vagina gets than a guy has over the state of his dick.

    Research into women's sexual response has found that vaginal lubrication is prompted by the woman being in any situation that the brain recognises as potentially sexual. One famous experiment found that women lubricated when they watched a video of Bonobo chimpanzees mating; it wasn't that they wanted to have sex with a monkey, just that the part of their brain that controls vaginal lubrication said, "Right, we're looking at a sexual situation here, so we better get ready for sex."

    You and your boyfriend were on the bed - a setting associated with sex. He's a potential sexual mate, and he was doing intimate things with you for some time. It's hardly surprising that the animal bit of your brain that controls vaginal lubrication decided that it would be a good idea to get ready for sex.

    As for how wet you got, that was probably due to how long you continued kissing. It's not like your vagina releases a little bit of lubrication at the start of sex and stops. Normally, women lubricate for as long as they are sexually aroused.

    It's possible that where you are in your menstrual cycle also had some effect on how wet you got. Hormone levels vary through the cycle, and some women are much more easily aroused at certain points than they are at others.

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    • Hahaha. Bonobo sex. Now we know what movies you watch with your girlfriends. You probably refrigerate your own semen to use as cologne. This scent would also support your hypothesis. Hahaha, you dog, you.

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    • Tl;dr.

      It's funny you said that then posted a comment 8 times longer. XD

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      • Apologies. Next time, I'll make the heading "Executive Summary".

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