Is it normal that i got pregnant off a 3sum

A couple asked me to have a threesum with them. It was my second time being with the couple. The second time he came in me. She asked me if he could and in the heat of the moment I said yes. Now I’m pregnant. I’ve told him and he freaked out but I haven’t told her because I’m worried about her feelings. I don’t know what to do. I’m upset but shit happens. He doesn’t want to talk to me anymore separately without her. I just want to be friendly to them both. I feel bad this happened. What do I do? How do I go about this?

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  • redrainbow22

    Have the child, take responsibility. Raise it. Continue your life. And learn your lesson.

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    • I am having the baby.

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      • redrainbow22

        Thats good news! :)

        Congrats!

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      • Dan13309

        Great to hear everything happens for a reason

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  • acrylicpapito

    They knew what they were signing up for.

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  • LionsMane

    You find the money for an abortion. What child wants to grow up 1) without a father 2) knowing his mom was a whore?

    Poor kid, It's not even like you were raped or it was an accident with someone you were actually in a relationship with.

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    • You need help lmao.

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  • The biggest question is if you want to keep the baby.

    If you do not, it's up to you to tell the other woman.

    If you want to keep the baby, then they both need to know. Especially the man, so it was a good thing that you told him.

    Oh, and just make sure, if you are having this baby, you provide a good environment for it to born into. You need to get your act together, you cannot make in the heat decisions like this. A baby needs stability. And also a father.

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  • Radovan_Wolf

    Is the guy good genetic material?
    I guess the most moral and best way to go about this is to live with those people and bring up all the man´s children under one roof, but I understand that might be impossible.
    Don´t have an abortion though, that´s just ditching responsibility.

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    • They don’t have children she is older and fixed. He is not. I plan on keeping my baby. Just need to figure out how to tell him. He’s blaming me and doesn’t want me to contact him. So I guess ima have to let her know.

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  • Gramhader

    Sperm + egg = kid

    So ya its normal

    But is the father realy somone your ok having a kid with is the question.

    Its up to you to make that decision

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  • EnglishLad

    This sounds like a scenario on Maury!

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    • Waste

      “ He is the Father”!!!!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Tell the stupid woman, she was the one who asked if he could do that to you afterall. What kind of stupid woman would be okay with her man having sex with and ejaculating inside another woman without a condom? What the fuck? Do not feel pressured to have an abortion, and do not have anymore threesomes with these douchebags. Also DO NOT have sex with anyone without a condom. If things get complicated just give the baby up for adoption. If you choose to keep the poor child it is okay for you to sue those people for child support.

    I'm sorry this happened to you, but it really is a case of stupidity in action. I hope you have learned something.

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  • Nickvey

    your could kill the unborn baby and it would be legal but its killing an unborn baby so unless you would do that it will fuck with your mind the rest of your life. they call it pregnancy termination. you be like a hit man. he didnt mind cumming inside you so he can support this baby for 18 years or more now . that part was his problem. hey , whats wrong with him having two wives , muslims can have as many as they want. fuck yea, move in with them and fuck till the cows come home. she didnt mind sharing the cock when you were not pregnant.

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  • gllinton0211

    have the kid and raise her to be a whore like her mom lol

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    • Bigholeinone69

      I agree, have the child and continue having 3sums. Your a woman, be one and have fun.

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  • randypete

    Get an abortion

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  • A.B.O.R.T
    Get rid of that baby!

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  • Congrats.

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  • I stopped talking to them both. This baby will be just my responsibility in the end I don’t care. It’s a girl. She’ll be here in 2 more months and I’m ready for her. I love her.

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  • 1DavyJones

    Some of these comments focus too much on assigning blame. First thing: I believe in your right to choose whether you want to continue the pregnancy or not. You have chosen to do it and that is your choice alone. I myself can only try to emphasize the important thing and that is to ensure a happy childhood for this baby. Everyone needs to know about it, you are all adults and you have managed to have fun together - maybe they aren't souch bad people after all. We have many forms of family nowadays. Let these two find their own roles in your baby's life. I also believe they should offer their financial support.

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  • Adores-anal

    You'll never get pregnant if u take it in the butt

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  • SgtRock

    I would never have a threesome because I only have two hands. ;p

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  • nikkiclaire

    Maybe that was their plan all along.

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  • _confused_

    Depends if you're ready to be mother or not. If you are tell her to see what to do. Be financially stable to raise that kid and use protection next time 😒😒

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    • I already have a child. So being a mama is not hard. It’s doing it by myself. With this child that just scares me. I plan on keeping it but he’s worried about his relationship with her. Since they plan on marrying.

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      • Don't worry about his relationship with her that's not your concern. They are both adults and both went into this 3some willingly, it's not like you and him were having an affair behind her back. She is as much responsible for you falling pregnant as you and him.

        She deserves to know about the pregnancy, especially if you are determined to keep the baby. If he is to much of a pathetic wimp to tell her himself, then you will have to do it for him (typical man I guess). Ultimately he will be the one responsible for helping support you and the baby not her, which under the circumstances does seem a little unfair, but that's just how it is. If they continue with their marriage plans then I guess she will have to share that financial support with him anyway.

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      • Waste

        Have the child and make that mf respondible! If she make the decision for him to come inside that’s their problem.
        The child deserves a home and a man responsible for his actions and decisions. His wife took that decision in her hands... well to bad!!

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