Well, he also opened up a lot of accounts at dating websites where he says his relationship status is "complicated" or "single," and that he is interested in "men and women." So, this isn't the only thing that he has done to make me question our vows!
We've only been married for less than a year. It's hard to believe he is feeling the seven year itch already. Whenever we "break up," he gets over me rather quickly ---- opening up new dating site accounts and contacting other women (and probably men) within hours of the break up. He never used to password protect his phone or Nook, but now he does. He came at me violently when I picked up his phone and tried to snoop.
Well i understand his veiw on that i personally cant stand people messing with my stuff esspecially my phone (its pricy) and my books drives me nutters but in his case its obviously cus hes hiding stuff
Oh well thats good news then. At least you werent married to him for like 50 years lol
I dont know about this 7 year myth thing. Cause if I get married I plan on staying married forever :)
Yup. He's obvious. Obvious he is. Yoda I am
XD haha
All I can say is good luck. Unless you try to help him stop being so addicted to sexual experimentation, then I doubt he'll stop himself
If you love him, try to help him stop.
I'm not against experimentation; we've done a lot of things together that I know we wouldn't have done with anyone else. It's just this one issue I have a problem with. I can't compete with a dick if that is what he wants and that is what turns him on. I wish I had known before I married him, that's all.
I have given him everything he wants until I am worn out! He begged me to peg him and I even did that, although I was disgusted the whole time. He insists that I got off on it too, even though I didn't. He acted like such a little girl the whole time, I couldn't believe it was the same man I married. He insists that he just likes to get his "prostate massaged." Is that a viable reason or just a flat-out excuse?!
Yea theres guys out there who are into dickgirls but claim they're "straight" lol
his "prostate massaged" XD hahahaha
who just comes up with this shit? id be telling him, "dude thats not a good enough excuse"
you dont see guys going in for prostate massages lol
If he wants his prostate rubbed take him up on that i know a great toy for that and its wide as fuck to. If hes really wanting it hell take it like a bitch in heat if not well..
I would say this is about more than just him enjoying anal. Generally guys who are into being pegged are also interested in being submissive in other ways. Maybe you could try being more assertive and see if you get a positive reaction from him.
It's very, very important to have a mutual understanding of what happens during sex!
Sex is a land of compromise and orgasms, and should never be stressful or negative in any way. If you don't like pegging your mate, but he insists on anal pleasure, tell him that you don't mind him doing it to himself during sex (if you don't mind.) Maybe give him head while he dildos himself.
Make sure he understands it's not judging him, it's about YOU and how YOU don't enjoy that the way he does. If he can't accept that, then maybe you should divorce him :p
He would probably be delighted by any kind of acceptance to his newfound fetish, though. Give him an inch, and don't let him take a mile!
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Depends. How much do you love him? Are you willing to break up a marriage based off something like that?
I can see if he cheated. I can see if he was a killer lol
But just for being bisexual?
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Yeah right
If you lived me.....
What a load of shit! How manipulative.
Guess what I love me more!!
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"If you lived me?"
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I was trying to type what you said.
"If you loved me...."
referring to "Depends. How much do you love him?"
Nevermind...:-(
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lol oh ok
i thought you were. but i didnt understand if you were going for a joke or what
Well, he also opened up a lot of accounts at dating websites where he says his relationship status is "complicated" or "single," and that he is interested in "men and women." So, this isn't the only thing that he has done to make me question our vows!
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Sounds like he feels restricted by your marriage and wants to experiement with guys and girls
Tisk tisk. Hes supposed to be loyal to you though. What does he think a marriage is?
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We've only been married for less than a year. It's hard to believe he is feeling the seven year itch already. Whenever we "break up," he gets over me rather quickly ---- opening up new dating site accounts and contacting other women (and probably men) within hours of the break up. He never used to password protect his phone or Nook, but now he does. He came at me violently when I picked up his phone and tried to snoop.
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Well i understand his veiw on that i personally cant stand people messing with my stuff esspecially my phone (its pricy) and my books drives me nutters but in his case its obviously cus hes hiding stuff
Oh well thats good news then. At least you werent married to him for like 50 years lol
I dont know about this 7 year myth thing. Cause if I get married I plan on staying married forever :)
Yup. He's obvious. Obvious he is. Yoda I am
XD haha
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I'm not against experimentation; we've done a lot of things together that I know we wouldn't have done with anyone else. It's just this one issue I have a problem with. I can't compete with a dick if that is what he wants and that is what turns him on. I wish I had known before I married him, that's all.
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Well of course its fine between you and him. But I meant this sexual experimentation that is leading him away from you
Well your choice. Good luck.
Maybe kick his balls for good luck haha
wowwwwwwwww XD haha yea, you got trouble on your hands
I just dont know anymore lol
Well, expect for him to possibly cheat on you. Sex is on his mind, and he's gotta learn to control himself.
Have you held back on sex? I mean I know though that its still not a excuse to cheat
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I have given him everything he wants until I am worn out! He begged me to peg him and I even did that, although I was disgusted the whole time. He insists that I got off on it too, even though I didn't. He acted like such a little girl the whole time, I couldn't believe it was the same man I married. He insists that he just likes to get his "prostate massaged." Is that a viable reason or just a flat-out excuse?!
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Hmmmm, XD haha this niggas getting kinky lol
Yup, its a sexual experimentation drive for sure
Yea theres guys out there who are into dickgirls but claim they're "straight" lol
his "prostate massaged" XD hahahaha
who just comes up with this shit? id be telling him, "dude thats not a good enough excuse"
you dont see guys going in for prostate massages lol
its obviously a sexual reason
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Haha for prostate rubs last thing you want is shaft litterly a finger feels better for prostate pleasure than a shaft
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by shaft do you mean dick? lol
how does a finger feel better than a dick? idk, i havent tried a finger in some time lol
If he wants his prostate rubbed take him up on that i know a great toy for that and its wide as fuck to. If hes really wanting it hell take it like a bitch in heat if not well..
I would say this is about more than just him enjoying anal. Generally guys who are into being pegged are also interested in being submissive in other ways. Maybe you could try being more assertive and see if you get a positive reaction from him.
It's very, very important to have a mutual understanding of what happens during sex!
Sex is a land of compromise and orgasms, and should never be stressful or negative in any way. If you don't like pegging your mate, but he insists on anal pleasure, tell him that you don't mind him doing it to himself during sex (if you don't mind.) Maybe give him head while he dildos himself.
Make sure he understands it's not judging him, it's about YOU and how YOU don't enjoy that the way he does. If he can't accept that, then maybe you should divorce him :p
He would probably be delighted by any kind of acceptance to his newfound fetish, though. Give him an inch, and don't let him take a mile!
Maybe a few inches if you're feeling kinky?