That's really not normal at that age - when you grow up, playfighting is a sign of flirtation. They probably aren't incesty or anything, but that would make me feel super awkward. I have an older brother and we used to playfight all the time, but aside from the occasional dead leg or arm we don't do that anymore, just because it would feel... WRONG O_o
Your boyfriend should really be playfighting with you not her. It's totally something he should grow out of and accept that both he and her have hit puberty, and therefore can't do things they would have as kids. It's alright to take a bath and run around naked around your siblings when you're little, but doing that now is sick. Playfighting is just a bit more pg-13, but the sexual undertones are there.
You should make him watch the Friends episode with the innapropriate sister. Episode 510. Do it.
Yes it’s very weird behavior and she has every right to be weirded out by this. His behavior should change or u should leave. That’s where I’m at right now too.
Hey I am currently in that current situation, to be honest i don't agree on what people are saying that it's "jealousy" or the fact that because he is "playful with her an not me". Is just I've never grown up with my siblings like that, an even tho my brother use to try to play around with me when I was smaller i just didn't like it. I felt very uncomfortable, I guess is because I felt weird that he is a male an am a female. An I just grow up different where my parents use to talk about respecting yourself an what u are wearing in the house lol. But honestly if my bf an his sister behaves like that I don't have a problem because again that's his sister that's how they grow up an I respect that .... But just when um around I prefer he don't behave like that because it makes me uncomfortable, ... we have spoken about it an he understands where I am coming from an he have learn how to respect me.
IIN that I get jealous when my boyfriend plays around with his sister?
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That's really not normal at that age - when you grow up, playfighting is a sign of flirtation. They probably aren't incesty or anything, but that would make me feel super awkward. I have an older brother and we used to playfight all the time, but aside from the occasional dead leg or arm we don't do that anymore, just because it would feel... WRONG O_o
Your boyfriend should really be playfighting with you not her. It's totally something he should grow out of and accept that both he and her have hit puberty, and therefore can't do things they would have as kids. It's alright to take a bath and run around naked around your siblings when you're little, but doing that now is sick. Playfighting is just a bit more pg-13, but the sexual undertones are there.
You should make him watch the Friends episode with the innapropriate sister. Episode 510. Do it.
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Yes it’s very weird behavior and she has every right to be weirded out by this. His behavior should change or u should leave. That’s where I’m at right now too.
Hey I am currently in that current situation, to be honest i don't agree on what people are saying that it's "jealousy" or the fact that because he is "playful with her an not me". Is just I've never grown up with my siblings like that, an even tho my brother use to try to play around with me when I was smaller i just didn't like it. I felt very uncomfortable, I guess is because I felt weird that he is a male an am a female. An I just grow up different where my parents use to talk about respecting yourself an what u are wearing in the house lol. But honestly if my bf an his sister behaves like that I don't have a problem because again that's his sister that's how they grow up an I respect that .... But just when um around I prefer he don't behave like that because it makes me uncomfortable, ... we have spoken about it an he understands where I am coming from an he have learn how to respect me.