Is it normal that i get jealous over stupid things?

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i´ve been in a relationship with my man for 2 years and a half plus two. lol
and i'm always like joking on being jealous and he understands it but sometimes he freaks out with my jealousy level. like for example we are skyping (btw we only see each other on spring break, the june-august vacations and on christmas holidays 'cause we live on different cities) and yes we are skyping and then he smiles and it seems like he's typing and i get all crazy like "who you talking to???" and well he wasn't talking to anyone but anyways it did got me kinda angry because at first he didn't want to tell me.
sorry if i misspelled something, and the punctuation errors are intentional because i'm lazy af.

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  • Twistedsister
    6 years ago

    See a psychiatrist.

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  • WhiteTile
    6 years ago

    Your gonna push him away with that shit, you gotta knock it off

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      This.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    Ease up. I dated a woman who was jealous of every other female I interacted with, always asking questions and suspicious, yet, thought nothing of hanging with her guy friends and, once, having a "friendly dinner" at a guy's house. I'd have business group meetings with women, and would hear "So, how was Jenn-ifer?", very accusational. She pushed me away just by that good for goose, not good for gander behavior. I had innocent, necessary meetings that we had to do, during the daytime, but she could have dinner at some guy's house at night? And I was supposed to be quiet about it? No.. Her jealousy did us in.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    3 years ago

    turns out he was talking to his ex and i was right

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  • Sudofato
    6 years ago

    I agree with the others, that jealously can be a very bad thing in a relationship. People don't want to be yelled at over and over, especially if they are innocent.

    Most guys love to get attention from girls, and so they are blinded (they don't realize it's happening) when a random lightly flirts with him. But light flirting does not mean cheating, and should not be something to be jealous of.

    The guy dating other women, or trying to pick them up, or something worse is not something to get jealous of, it's something to get angry at. But accusing the guy of this with out really knowing will make the guy not like spending time with you, especially if it happens often.

    If he cheats on you, then jealously is not good, leaving him is, but getting even with him is even better, especially with someone he knows.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    i'm sorry.
    how can i stop?

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Not trying to be rude but as another poster suggested, see a therapist.

      Jealousy has some pretty deep seeded roots sometimes, mostly from feelings of insecurity. A therapist can help you gain self esteem by suggesting helpful activities.

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  • dreadpool555
    6 years ago

    I hate you. bye

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      calm down, you don't even know me :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Jealousy destroys yourself and others eventually.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    6 years ago

    It's not really normal and it's the kind of thing that can push someone away.

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