This is true, but I think it's dangerous, because things don't always turn out the way we want them to do.
Worst case scenario the person in the dominant role in the relationship turns out to be a narcissistic abuser who can makes ones life Hell on Earth.
Best case, but not necessarily good, scenario the dominant person eventually ends up in a position where they need the submissive person to take the lead, because of serious illness or even death.
Additionally, there is also the ever present possibility that the relationship just plain won't work.
Regardless it's always good for one to know how to take care of one's own self.
I tend to think that although men and women are indeed vastly different we are not entirely different. I think that the male gender holds no monopoly on narcissists or control freaks or whatever.
With all due respect I think you are idealizing women, because they are not men. Regardless we're all human.
What happens when she dies and you run out of her money? You're 20 years younger than her, you'll be fucked later in life if you don't care of this stuff now.
IIN that I get jealous of my lesbian girlfriend talking with other women
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Rose lots of us like control. You know that from talking to me
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This is true, but I think it's dangerous, because things don't always turn out the way we want them to do.
Worst case scenario the person in the dominant role in the relationship turns out to be a narcissistic abuser who can makes ones life Hell on Earth.
Best case, but not necessarily good, scenario the dominant person eventually ends up in a position where they need the submissive person to take the lead, because of serious illness or even death.
Additionally, there is also the ever present possibility that the relationship just plain won't work.
Regardless it's always good for one to know how to take care of one's own self.
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You are thinking of men. When women are together like this we respect each other.
Op enjoys it like i do. I like being used like she described.
She described i perfectly.
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I tend to think that although men and women are indeed vastly different we are not entirely different. I think that the male gender holds no monopoly on narcissists or control freaks or whatever.
With all due respect I think you are idealizing women, because they are not men. Regardless we're all human.
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"We don't dislike penises, we just dislike them on men." --viewpoint expressed by a non-heterosexual female.
This. Women are just as capable of being abusive as men. In any type of relationship.
My mom doesn’t like me in this relationship but I had to get away from my mom. I look up to my girlfriend now.
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Damn, that explains a lot! So what's up with your mom?
*looks for cigar and fake beard*
I don’t feel controlled and she says that she makes enough to provide for me.
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What happens when she dies and you run out of her money? You're 20 years younger than her, you'll be fucked later in life if you don't care of this stuff now.
So what were you studying before all of this?
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Teacher curriculum. I’m glad that she entered my life so I don’t have to worry about doing that.
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jesus you crazy bitch get a life and stop being your girlfriends chore slave
Okay, but it's always good to have a backup plan. You never know how things will turn out in this life.
So what's up with your mom? You said you had to get away from your mom.
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She was telling me to do things that I didn’t want to do.