IIN that I get jealous of my lesbian girlfriend talking with other women

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago | pl

    You've allowed yourself to be treated as a traditional stay at home wife to your lesbian lover and now you're paying the price.

    If you want the advantages of a dependent relationship, which personally I would find boring and restrictive whether it was with a woman or man, that's the price you'll have to pay. She sounds like a control freak to me and you sound controlled.

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago | pl

      She's 47 and someday she will be really old and you will still be young. You should step it up a bit and tell her you want to start taking classes again. As it is now you are her play thing. I would hate to think what would happen if she got bored with you and made your life miserable so you would leave. Then what?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      I don’t feel controlled. But, I respect her and usually do what she says because she provides and she’s older.

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      • NoLifer
        5 years ago | pl

        I agree with others saying you are a pet. There is some type of relationships in bdsm where the partner is a labelled a pet and follows thier masters orders. However they usually have freinds, a job, classes they do on the side. So I think in your case its far more dysfuctional. Say you want to get a job, take classes or leave.

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