I get the weird comments too. When I first started my last job I approached my new coworkers and tried to talk as much as I can tho I’m not very talkative. When I was around other people in the place I still would talk when I’d have chances. Yet I still heard coworkers saying “we need to get her out of her shell”. I looked over like excuse me bitch. Guess I come off as quiet even when I’m not. I hate when people assume I mean yeah I’m quiet but talked the most ahh. I remember one tried to get mad at me for something and I told her what was up then she was nice after. Like I gotta prove them so wrong just to stop getting comments yet I’m sure they still think I am how they expect me to be. People always do that they’re weird. Usually when I see someone one way I don’t stick to it and are open to see how they truly can be. I’m always getting surprised by people I try not to think ik how they are.
IIN that I find this annoying?
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I get the weird comments too. When I first started my last job I approached my new coworkers and tried to talk as much as I can tho I’m not very talkative. When I was around other people in the place I still would talk when I’d have chances. Yet I still heard coworkers saying “we need to get her out of her shell”. I looked over like excuse me bitch. Guess I come off as quiet even when I’m not. I hate when people assume I mean yeah I’m quiet but talked the most ahh. I remember one tried to get mad at me for something and I told her what was up then she was nice after. Like I gotta prove them so wrong just to stop getting comments yet I’m sure they still think I am how they expect me to be. People always do that they’re weird. Usually when I see someone one way I don’t stick to it and are open to see how they truly can be. I’m always getting surprised by people I try not to think ik how they are.