Is it normal that i feel this way

I apologise for my incorrect assumptions. I mentioned inexperience because it's not uncommon for women to have big problems sorting out the jumble of sensations and emotions that are triggered during their early sexual encounters. The classic example is women who never have an orgasm because the sensations of arousal become so intense that they stop themselves. Once they push on through to the end, they suddenly understand how it works.

I'm a guy, and my nipples have always just sorta been there. They're more sensitive than the surrounding skin, but I've never got anything positive from nipple stimulation. But some guys go crazy over their nipples being sucked or tweaked or stroked. I'm wired up the way I am, they're a little different, and it's all cool.

Women generally have much more sensitive nipples than men. The nerves from your nipples travel to the same part of your brain as those from your clitoris, vagina, and cervix. What actually happens in your head when your nipples are stimulated is complicated and depends on your personal neural wiring as well as psychological factors. Some women are pretty meh about their breasts and that's fine. But did you know some women are able to have orgasms after prolonged breast stimulation? From what I've read, they're different to clitoral orgasms, but nice in their own way.

Since there's the implication in your posts that your confusion not only upsets you, but also might be causing some tensions between you and your boyfriend, I'd suggest that you might consider doing some solo exploration of what's going on. Pick a time when you're comfortable and not going to be disturbed and you'll be free to leisurely play with your breasts for at least half an hour. Take your time, try different techniques of pressure and speed, and just focus on what you're feeling, both physically and emotionally. If you feel like you really want to stop, don't, but continue pushing on and see where you end up. As I said, some women stop themselves from having an orgasm because they don't push on; it's possible something similar is happening with you.

As long as you use nothing but your hands, you're not going to permanently injure yourself. The worst that's going to happen is that you'll get to the point of total overload, everything will go a little numb, and you'll end up thinking, "Right, we're done here." Even if that's all that happens, you probably will have learned something about yourself.

Whatever happens when your nipples are stimulated, it's normal for you and there's nothing wrong with you. Guys have a tendency to believe that because a particular technique rocked the world of one woman, it should do the same for all women. That's not how it works, so never let a guy tell you that you're weird because you don't respond as he expects.