Do what you feel is right and stop depending on others to dictate how you should be. :) I personally don't believe in the waiting til marriage bit, because I believe comfort and compatibility in the physical aspect of a relationship play a huge role in the long term success. I don't feel insecure that I am not the only lover my partner has had because I know she chose me. If you can't be secure in yourself and what you and a partner have physically then you have nothing. So I find it a bit unsettling when people find gratification on the fact that the person they marry has never had anyone else. Seems like insecurity, fear of not measuring up. But to each us their own. Whatever makes you happy...do it.
iin that i feel that i may want to wait to have sex til after marriage
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Do what you feel is right and stop depending on others to dictate how you should be. :) I personally don't believe in the waiting til marriage bit, because I believe comfort and compatibility in the physical aspect of a relationship play a huge role in the long term success. I don't feel insecure that I am not the only lover my partner has had because I know she chose me. If you can't be secure in yourself and what you and a partner have physically then you have nothing. So I find it a bit unsettling when people find gratification on the fact that the person they marry has never had anyone else. Seems like insecurity, fear of not measuring up. But to each us their own. Whatever makes you happy...do it.