I was debating on whether or not to say this is normal, but I ended up voting no.
First off, this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Obviously, the trust is just barely there.
Second, he has anger issues. He needs to get help. When you get so angry, that you break things, or put yourself in danger, it's definitely a problem.
Third, there's a very fine line between love and obsession. I think you've definitely hit obsession, and obsessions aren't very healthy.
Last, but not least, cheating is cheating, whether it's online, over the phone, or in person. It's easy to forgive and forget, but what if it happens again? "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
If you really would like this to work out, cut back a little on the obsession. Try not to worry so much about him leaving you over the little things. You're stressing yourself out. If he loves you like you say he does, he won't leave over something petty. Talk about your problems. Stay calm, and hopefully he will, too. Maybe you could get him to take an anger management class. It would definitely be useful in this case, before his anger gets out-of-control.
Anyway, that's my opinion on the matter. Hope you can figure things out.
IIN that i feel completely obsessed about my boyfriend. ........
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I was debating on whether or not to say this is normal, but I ended up voting no.
First off, this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Obviously, the trust is just barely there.
Second, he has anger issues. He needs to get help. When you get so angry, that you break things, or put yourself in danger, it's definitely a problem.
Third, there's a very fine line between love and obsession. I think you've definitely hit obsession, and obsessions aren't very healthy.
Last, but not least, cheating is cheating, whether it's online, over the phone, or in person. It's easy to forgive and forget, but what if it happens again? "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
If you really would like this to work out, cut back a little on the obsession. Try not to worry so much about him leaving you over the little things. You're stressing yourself out. If he loves you like you say he does, he won't leave over something petty. Talk about your problems. Stay calm, and hopefully he will, too. Maybe you could get him to take an anger management class. It would definitely be useful in this case, before his anger gets out-of-control.
Anyway, that's my opinion on the matter. Hope you can figure things out.