Is it normal that i enjoy american porn more than sex with belarusian women?

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Okay, here is the story. I live in Belarus, the last dictatorship in Europe, economically and socially underdeveloped. Now, I have noticed that I enjoy watching American and German porn and jerking off more than having real sex with girls here. The reason for it is that American and German porn girls are really into having sex and get the most out of it, because they grow up in their developed countries in a situation of high existential security and with an emphasis on self-expression values. So they really know how to relax and enjoy good sex - it's a way of self-expression for them.

Over here the situation is somewhat different. The emphasis here is on survival values, so on the subconscious level it is very difficult for girls to relax during sexual intercourse and not to think about repression and survival, even though they cannot clearly formulate their feelings. But I lived in the US for quite a while, so I clearly see the problem due to having the advantage of an "out-of-the-box" view. And it takes all the fun out of it! So what would be your suggestions?

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  • bazwell
    14 years ago

    Your very well articulated concerns sound like they represent a multi-layered and broad range of problems and eventual solutions.

    For you personally, I recommend that you try not to internalize that idea that the women on screen are more desirable or in someway worthy of your attention, affection or interest than your live and breathing Belarusian sisters. Take some time away from your tube to engage your sisters in conversations about your observations. Create a mini-revolution in their minds whether or not they agree with you. This could greatly contribute to a resolution to the problem back home..you never know.

    Finally, I'd suggest you start meeting live, breathing American and/or German ladies. There are many of them all over the "box" you know? Mingle, start relationships, give your wrist a rest already!

    best of luck to you!

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  • Geldsmaggen
    11 years ago

    Technically the Vatican is also a dictatorship.

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  • ya-lyublyu-tebya
    12 years ago

    You say that "American and German porn girls are really into having sex and get the most out of it, because they grow up in their developed countries in a situation of high existential security and with an emphasis on self-expression values", but you forget that it's porn. They're supposed to act like that.

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  • Paul
    12 years ago

    That's great, thank you for your input! I know exactly where Zakharava Street is! And I am really glad it all has worked out for you and you've managed to bring out your suppressed sexuality in a developed country!

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