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I just don't care. I know she loves me and I love her and I don't see the big deal of one of us getting freaky with someone else. I have my girlfriends and I don't care if she has boyfriends. Is this attitude normal?
I wish she would do it. We haven't had sex for a while. I can see she is frustrated but she still refuses to even talk about sex. If she is not being turned on by me, I hope she fucks someone else so that the tension between us subsides. She is doing my head in with all sorts of crap, smaller than small. It's all due to her sexual frustration. She's gone for the weekend somewhere. I hope it's to get some cock and a relief. Hope someone's riding her ass right now!
My wife is free to do as she pleases and who she pleases. I think it is great and so does she
I don't see a problem if your both cool with it. But beware of STD's. 21% of women have herpes and about 12% of men. It's easier for women to catch although men can catch it even with a condom. And it's fore-ever. No cure. Not to mention all the other STD's out there.
About 1 in 6 Americans (16.2%) aged 14 to 49 is infected with HSV-2. HSV-2 prevalence was nearly twice as high among women (20.9%) than men (11.5%), and was more than three times higher among blacks (39.2%) than non-Hispanic whites (12.3%). The most affected group was black women, with a prevalence rate of 48%.
I wish my wife was poly too. She likes swinging but is insecure about an emotional connection with others
Take it slow and show him he has nothing to fear and he probably will eventually. Good luck hun and enjoy if he is ok with it. You may have to encourage him to try it first, maybe a couple of times.
Is it for you? Most people say they don't intend to cheat on their so but most people fantasize about people other than who their with.
It's for me, so much so that my boyfriend is my 1st and hopefully my only if our relationship last.
No worries; I'm not driven by religion, or some weird idea of purity. It's just out of all the men I've dated, he was the one I liked the most to go that far with.
I am right there with you. My b/f is not my first. However he's the only man for me. I don't need or want anyone else. Nor do I feel the need to fantasize about anyone. :)
Wow, thank You!
First time I was ever complimented for being monogamous.
I'm assuming that you are younger... probably under 30. I was like you once, where if my gf had slept with another then they both would have turned up missing, but unfortunately, the years have made me a bit less jealous an far more jaded. Your innocence is a good thing and I hope you hold on to that way of thinking, hun. 💘 💘 💘
I think possessiveness is rooted in insecurity, and generally harmful for everyone in a relationship.
For what it's worth, I think it's good that you're not one of those dickheads who wants to have sex with more than one woman, but gets all bent out of shape if his main squeeze has her own fun with other guys. That's probably a more "normal" attitude in the sense that there are more guys who think that way than there who think as you do. But sometimes normal is highly overrated and pretty damn nonsensical.