Yeah the sex leaves me feeling stress if he attempts anal sex, because it always fails.
I tried again a few days ago but he did not laugh but just stated he doesn't enjoyvanal as much as giving it. But he said he'll stop trying to force me to get used to it, since I'm inexperienced with it (anal sex virgin.)
I decided to try and train/prepare my self for analbsex with butt plugs. I'm going to try for a month and see if I can succeed at having anal sex, and to see if I really do enjoy it. And I'll also let my bf finger me just to see if that's enjoyable at least.
But if I don't enjoy it and my bf pushes for me to try it again I probably consider leaving him. Because I can't take all the pain and stress it causes me. A bigger problem with it is not just me being an anal virgin its also him being too big, which I cannot change only my self sadly.
IIN that I don't want to be fucked?
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Thanks for the concern.
Yeah the sex leaves me feeling stress if he attempts anal sex, because it always fails.
I tried again a few days ago but he did not laugh but just stated he doesn't enjoyvanal as much as giving it. But he said he'll stop trying to force me to get used to it, since I'm inexperienced with it (anal sex virgin.)
I decided to try and train/prepare my self for analbsex with butt plugs. I'm going to try for a month and see if I can succeed at having anal sex, and to see if I really do enjoy it. And I'll also let my bf finger me just to see if that's enjoyable at least.
But if I don't enjoy it and my bf pushes for me to try it again I probably consider leaving him. Because I can't take all the pain and stress it causes me. A bigger problem with it is not just me being an anal virgin its also him being too big, which I cannot change only my self sadly.