Leave him. He's a slimy douche bag and you deserve better. If he can't compromise on sex, how could you expect him to compromise or put you first on anything else either?
I've talked to a young and gay married couple who I'm friends with one of them. I've talked to him about this, and how my partner doesn't want to swap sex-roles.
So he told me maybe the reason I'm not enjoying being a bottom is because I'm a "bottom virgin"?
I've slept with others but I always been top and dominant one.
Maybe I should learn how to be a proper 'bottom' before I make up my mind to break it off. He does compromise for other things like paying my half of the rent when I'm looking for another job while I study. He also cooks mostly everything too.
Yeah I'm trying the tip someone told me earlier here to prepare with butt plugs first.
Yeah, too bad my bf wants to do it so much. Its too frequent and I'm not even ready nor can I take him yet. We just end up doing other stuff in bed. But I see him still unsatisfied and me frustrated.
Yeah I have, but he thinks forcing it to stretch me out helps till one day I can take it properly. He doesn't get it.
But now I told him about using butt plugs because I'm not ready. And now I have to do way more to satisfy him. But at least he won't force me into anal anymore, until the butt plugs make me more flexible down there.
IIN that I don't want to be fucked?
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Leave him. He's a slimy douche bag and you deserve better. If he can't compromise on sex, how could you expect him to compromise or put you first on anything else either?
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I've talked to a young and gay married couple who I'm friends with one of them. I've talked to him about this, and how my partner doesn't want to swap sex-roles.
So he told me maybe the reason I'm not enjoying being a bottom is because I'm a "bottom virgin"?
I've slept with others but I always been top and dominant one.
Maybe I should learn how to be a proper 'bottom' before I make up my mind to break it off. He does compromise for other things like paying my half of the rent when I'm looking for another job while I study. He also cooks mostly everything too.
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See this is ridiculous. Both people in a realtionship should be able to be dominant.
Obviously with guys its different as both guys have dicks and one guy may want to be dominant and the other one too lol
Thats where this can be a problem, you two should take turns screwing each other though. You just gotta get over your fear of anal sex, and try it.
Sex shouldnt be the most important thing in a relationship anyway. It can ruin relationships like it might now.
But thats the problem with two dominant guys lol
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Yeah I'm trying the tip someone told me earlier here to prepare with butt plugs first.
Yeah, too bad my bf wants to do it so much. Its too frequent and I'm not even ready nor can I take him yet. We just end up doing other stuff in bed. But I see him still unsatisfied and me frustrated.
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Butt plugs could work
well guys can be horny lol
well have you told him your not ready yet? you should tell him and let him understand your concern :)
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Yeah he has a high sex drive.
Yeah I have, but he thinks forcing it to stretch me out helps till one day I can take it properly. He doesn't get it.
But now I told him about using butt plugs because I'm not ready. And now I have to do way more to satisfy him. But at least he won't force me into anal anymore, until the butt plugs make me more flexible down there.
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lol makes sense haha
forcing it lol
yea well i dont think you should feel you "have" to do more to satisfy him
if you want to satisfy him thats cool, but you shouldnt feel forced