It is quite normal to fantasize about other partners when having sex (multiple studies verify that). That does not mean that you don't love your partner. It means that they are no longer the mental sexual titillation that you need (even as they satisfy you physically).
As for the other kinds of love that need to exist in a relationship to make it last: I suggest that you get and read the book: "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman
I actually suggest that people get 2 copies, and each partner reads it. Then act on what each of you have learned. It changes things dramatically for the positive.
Note that usually that people read at different speeds. Not a problem as long as each is progressing thought the book within a reasonable period.
Refusal to read the book is an indication of a failed relationship, and often beyond repair.
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It is quite normal to fantasize about other partners when having sex (multiple studies verify that). That does not mean that you don't love your partner. It means that they are no longer the mental sexual titillation that you need (even as they satisfy you physically).
As for the other kinds of love that need to exist in a relationship to make it last: I suggest that you get and read the book: "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman
I actually suggest that people get 2 copies, and each partner reads it. Then act on what each of you have learned. It changes things dramatically for the positive.
Note that usually that people read at different speeds. Not a problem as long as each is progressing thought the book within a reasonable period.
Refusal to read the book is an indication of a failed relationship, and often beyond repair.