Is it normal that i don't like my friends but cant find new people that i like?

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I have been friends with this group of people for a while now, but I'm tired of them. We always do the same things and talk about the same things and it is getting old. I feel like they are in the same place they in their lives while I have moved on (or want to move on), but I can't seem to find other people that I like enough to become friends with. On top of that, the only person from my current group of friends who I can stand to be around is my gay best friend, who I happen to be in love with. I never have much time for anyone but him because of how much of my time he requires, which makes it difficult to make new friends or even get a boyfriend (since im always with a not-obviously-gay, goodlooking male). I'm not seeing any way that this could end without me being alone and feeling stupid. IIN?

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  • Roma
    12 years ago | pl

    I think you have to be brave and step away from these people. It's amazing how the universe rewards people who step into the flow of life. If you fear following your heart and resist change, then you won't achieve what you really want. Just trust that you'll be fine and the right friends will come your way :)

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  • BiNoMeans01
    10 years ago | pl

    You have not fully moved on until you find/make new friends.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    Join a club or society revolving around one of your interests. The other attendees are naturally going to share one of your interests, or they wouldn't be there. It's a good start.

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