Is it normal that i don't get aroused from kissing my husband?

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When I met him I would get aroused, wet and horny as hell. Now we dont kiss a lot but when he kisses me I feel nothing! I kissed a coworker recently, he's very attractive, and we flirt all the time. Whenever I think about that kiss I get turned on but my husband makes excuses to avoid having sex. Anyway I always end up masturbating.

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  • JD777
    8 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you are on your way to losing your husband over messing around with this other guy. And the new guy's kisses won't do much for you after you've been with him awhile.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    You're either not attracted to him anymore or bored. Either way it's not a good idea to screw around with a co worker.

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  • ajayllg
    8 years ago | pl

    i didnt get aroused kissing him either

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago | pl

    This may sound counterintuitive, but you need to handcuff your husband to the bed, suck him off, and show him your power and compassion. After a few days, coax him into retaliation. You'll love it.

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  • plastow
    8 years ago | pl

    cheating with another person always confuses things,and you don't get a true perspective or the situation.talk to your husband ,i know it sounds old hat but you have to communicate to get things put right.lets face it kissing or even having sex with someone new is always exciting for a while,but along with those goodies waits a very big bag of unhappiness.talk talk talk until its either dead ot sorted.

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago | pl

    I think you should stay with your husband for a while because he has the money, but keep the side negotiations running as well in the meantime.

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  • abigdick
    8 years ago | pl

    It may be time to move on in your life. Husband is history. He may not of been the man is are suppose to be with.

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