Boojum said it, problem maybe between the ears not the legs.
I've seen it before and it normally occurs after the first child (only child).
It happens subconsciously, sex equates to pregnancy and pregnancy was not/is not wanted or desired, so sex is not wanted or desired. Although on the outside you may be thinking I want this and I want to make it enjoyable, it's kind of like a guy with ED, thinking about it can subconsciously make things worse.
Not sure if you got pregnant easily or not but that could add to the process and problem. 100 years ago women were taught sex was for child birth if you enjoy sex then you're a slut and you might as well go be a hooker because good girls only do it or use it seldomly as needed.
Depending on your upbringing some of that programing could be hidden deep inside.
If this is the case, then you'll need to find a way to convince your subconscious mind it's okay and not Everytime is going to mean pregnancy. Most likely a counselor is going to be needed.
Iin that i don't feel much after having a baby even with a big penis?
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Boojum said it, problem maybe between the ears not the legs.
I've seen it before and it normally occurs after the first child (only child).
It happens subconsciously, sex equates to pregnancy and pregnancy was not/is not wanted or desired, so sex is not wanted or desired. Although on the outside you may be thinking I want this and I want to make it enjoyable, it's kind of like a guy with ED, thinking about it can subconsciously make things worse.
Not sure if you got pregnant easily or not but that could add to the process and problem. 100 years ago women were taught sex was for child birth if you enjoy sex then you're a slut and you might as well go be a hooker because good girls only do it or use it seldomly as needed.
Depending on your upbringing some of that programing could be hidden deep inside.
If this is the case, then you'll need to find a way to convince your subconscious mind it's okay and not Everytime is going to mean pregnancy. Most likely a counselor is going to be needed.