Is it normal that i distance myself from anyone i have sexual relations with?

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I'm not antisocial or a social butterfly. I'm mostly average, I have one close friend and the rest are more like associates. One problem I've come into is that once I have any sort of sexual relations with someone, I pull away. I realize that I'm doing it and I know that sex is the reason but I can't seem to stop myself. I'll be really happy that it happened for maybe a day, but when I have to face them or acknowledge that it did, I become extremely uncomfortable. I won't even like the person anymore. It worries me because I'm completely sure and comfortable with it when it happens, but later, I just want to forget about it.

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  • Fall_leaves
    8 years ago | pl

    Why do you think you're ashamed?

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    • uncouthhomo
      8 years ago | pl

      I don't really have any idea though. I'm completely clueless. It makes me worried I won't ever get into a serious relationship though.

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    • uncouthhomo
      8 years ago | pl

      Ashamed isn't quite the right word. Just like I don't want to think about it. Almost in denial that it happened and I refuse to tell anyone it did. I'll swear a partner to secrecy. I even avoid thinking about it.

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      • Gspyder
        8 years ago | pl

        What about it makes you uncomfortable? Do you feel guilty, or insecure about how you think you preformed, or something?

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago | pl

    Yes, because in the back of your mind you'll be thinking. "I know what you look like naked"..

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    • uncouthhomo
      8 years ago | pl

      It happens if we haven't yet had sex and our plans are cancelled. I'm not really thinking that either. Ashamed maybe, but not really. Just uncomfortable.

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