IIN that I dislike people that feel a need to get close to me?

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  • Hah. I make crap up to tell these ass holes---a separate "factoid" for each. Why not? If they call me on it, I just tell them that they must be mistaken...I never said it... Also, if it gets back to me through the office grapevine, I know exactly who has been gossiping about me.

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    • Good idea Gems! Thats great for revenge. I'm a very honest person, but I found out through a coworker that certain people were saying some very hurtful things that were, and I believe are STILL going around my work about me, and seriously, those are the exact people that always have the questions about my life. They're the ones who always seem the most talkative, and claim they "like me", and that I'm "so sweet". It pissed me off! I even heard a guy say things about me to another guy while I was in the same room! And he always seemed like a good guy. I mean, I can't say that everyone who says I'm so sweet, or that they like me, is just bullshitting me, but I feel like I always have to watch who I talk to now. I can't trust many people, and a lot of those people who talk to me have never really held a conversation with me in the WHOLE year I've been there. So how would they know me enough to say something so hurtful? I mean, we only exchanged a few hello's and goodbye's, that means they know me? That gives them the right to say such hurtful things about me?

      I found out that they were saying that I'm slow, and stupid/ditzy. Well, sorry that my kindness and sweetness is being mistaken as "slowness"!!!! And let me tell ya, I'm not one to really get physical with people, but when I get angry it's not pretty. And I wanted to dropkick their asses to the nursing home across the street!!!!

      I think I'm way too nice to some of the people at my work. They'll never meet anybody as nice as me. And what makes me even more angry, was that I didn't judge them, I was so friendly to them, but then when I found out what they were saying... ugh! It makes me disgusted how fake they are. And if ever they slip and say something hurtful about me when I'm around, I will make them apologize. I can't believe I didn't do something about it the first time.

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      • I do what I do not for revenge,but, just to maintain privacy and control over my life. And, more often than not, I simply answer a question with a question. For example:

        Probing Asshole: Are you Black Irish? Where were you born? What is your racial background? Are you Catholic?

        Me: My! You ask a lot of personal questions... Did you know that? Now, tell me... again... why exactly you "need" to know this? How is it related to my work at the XYZ Company?

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