Is it normal that i despise intimacy?

I hate any physical contact and commitment. I hate seeing couples hugging each other and kissing, it ticks me off.

Is It Normal?
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  • Sounds more like envy than hate.

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  • Um....not to sound rude but, ahem.....get over it.

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  • Sounds like something an incel would say tbh

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  • DIO

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  • Do you just hate it when you see other couples, or does the idea of you being physically intimate and in a committed relationship also bother you?

    If the former, it could be envy. If both, I'm really not sure.

    I can relate to not being a big fan of physical intimacy and not wanting a relationship, but other people's relationships don't bother me. It's when my peers try to pressure me into dating despite me telling them multiple times I just don't want to right now that I don't like.

    I do think some displays of public affection are over the top and think to myself, "get a room", but don't really hate couples just for being couples.

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  • Boring

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  • They have a right to refuse intimacy and just as much of a right to post here without judgment as the rest of us do

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  • You arent ticked off at it. You WISH that could be you! Jealousy and envy dont give you anything unless you physically turn it into a power source to drive you.

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  • This is 100% normal, please ignore the hate ❤

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  • There are five love languages; words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, receiving gifts, and acts of service. It seems that physical touch just isn't one of your love languages.

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  • Where you a victim of rape?

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    • I'm guessing envious person on V day.

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      • You think? Maybe.
        I used to hate seeing couples when I was young because it reminded me that I've broken up with my girlfriend after a 2 years relationship.
        But I know that people who suffered sexual abuse can sometimes hate everything related to that. I've seen girls like this.

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        • Timing is everything though. Why now? Any other random day after this sure I would put more stock into that theory. But the timing lines up with being single during V day.

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          • Maybe. It could also be a coincidence. But I think you're probably right.

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  • Not normal but hey im not judging.

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