Oh dear! First off, let me just say that I hate it when people let religion come between them and their partners and destroy something that was good. Why stop having sex just because you're going to church? Sex is natural and part of our driving force, religion is a destroyer of all man's instincts. If you were having sex with him before, why stop now? Do you really think it makes a difference? Are you atoning for the sin of enjoying intamicy with somebody you love?
As for what he's doing, I don't think it's wrong, or abnormal and I don't think you should be mad at him. Men and women alike masturbate and even when in happy and healthy sexual relationships. If you don't and don't understand it, then you have issues with sex. That is pretty sad because you will never have a happy and fulfilling relationship as long as you have issues with these things. If I caught my husband doing that in bed next to me, I'd be so turned on by it and would just take the initiative and help him out. What could be sexier? You need to just relax, and let go a little and stop being all hung up about things that come naturally to people. I think you're the one with the problem, sorry to say that, and I don't mean to put you down, insult you or make you feel bad. I just think you need to re-evalute your feelings and try to find out why this bothers you so much. The guy is not cheating on you!
IIN that I caught my boyfriend masterbating while in bed with me sleep
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Oh dear! First off, let me just say that I hate it when people let religion come between them and their partners and destroy something that was good. Why stop having sex just because you're going to church? Sex is natural and part of our driving force, religion is a destroyer of all man's instincts. If you were having sex with him before, why stop now? Do you really think it makes a difference? Are you atoning for the sin of enjoying intamicy with somebody you love?
As for what he's doing, I don't think it's wrong, or abnormal and I don't think you should be mad at him. Men and women alike masturbate and even when in happy and healthy sexual relationships. If you don't and don't understand it, then you have issues with sex. That is pretty sad because you will never have a happy and fulfilling relationship as long as you have issues with these things. If I caught my husband doing that in bed next to me, I'd be so turned on by it and would just take the initiative and help him out. What could be sexier? You need to just relax, and let go a little and stop being all hung up about things that come naturally to people. I think you're the one with the problem, sorry to say that, and I don't mean to put you down, insult you or make you feel bad. I just think you need to re-evalute your feelings and try to find out why this bothers you so much. The guy is not cheating on you!