Is it normal that i can't take compliments and believe everyone around me hates me

Is it normal that whenever someone compliments me I feel like they're secretly lying to me and only complimenting me because they feel sorry for me? I feel like any compliment isn't genuine or that it's just a joke and that makes it really difficult for me to take them, I just feel uncomfortable when I'm given them and I mumble out she sort of thanks. It's partly that I don't want to appear rude and partly that I wish I was just able to believe them. I also feel like they couldn't possibly be complimenting me because they probably just hate me. If I'm not super close with someone or I've had a couple awkward conversations with them or maybe I'm just kinda loud around them I'll automatically assume that they think I'm obnoxious and annoying and awkward and that they don't like me. I just believe that everyone likes everyone else more than they like me and I just hate it.

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  • jamaze13

    I feel the same way. Do some research on mood disorders. It could be helpful

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  • Loco!Motive?

    Personally I think strangers and acquaintances who give out compliments too freely need to stop, it just pisses me off. The intention seems hollow and pointless unless the person actually knows me in some way and has shared experiences with me

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  • redrainbow22

    You gotta stop believing everyone is against you :)

    Most people are friendly. Unless you live in a place like Chicago

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  • Nickvey

    most compliments are really digs , its just human nature when most are souls that belong in hell. i never been able to trust anyone i have not had sex with. its only after i have been naked with them and exchanged body fluids that i can trust them to speak the truth to me. we might be just alike in that respect.

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    • Blue221496

      What the fuck

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