Is it normal that i can't get it in!

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(Warning blood for those of you who think "TMI")

I tried to have anal sex with my partner but I can't get him to fit in me. And I've tried relaxing, fingers and lube he even tickled me (which was kinda weird). He gave up on our last try because I started bleeding.
I asked one of my female friends for advise but she said I'm too young to have sex, but I'm 19.

Now my boyfriend is starting to think I'm not bi but straight. I don't know what to do to fix it.

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  • Crow
    8 years ago

    Try using even more lube? Did the fingering feel uncomfortable? If it did, you should probably slow down a bit.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Yeah a little. After using one finger for a while, he uses a weird method to try and fit as many as he can one after another to stretch it out. Pretty risky but he is impatient so...I'll try using more lube.

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      • geb
        8 years ago

        Maybe you should try a donkey. Since you act like an animal you should screw a few. Maybe get lucky and pick up some awful disease. Use your head on your shoulders. Not the one between your legs

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  • Bigcahonies
    8 years ago

    tell him to lick your arse hole before trying to stick his dick into it! He should lick you at least a half an hour to get you nice and relaxed, occasionaly shoving a finger or two in whilst licking to "stretch" you out a bit, by the time you are nice and relaxed he can turn you over and slowly slide his thick dick into your arse, he should only get the head in at first than wait for you to get used to it. Then he must slowly let you take charge by pressing your bum up against his dick until he is all the way in!

    Instead of humping away at it, he should stand and wiggle his dick around in you at first and when you start humping him, he will know it is well and truly time to fuck your arse hard! Play with your clit whilst he is busy, you are sure to have a mind shattering orgasm!

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    • geb
      8 years ago

      Sure lick the shit off his rectum. That sounds real normal. Like my dog and cat does. You have lost all moral sense.

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    • dalreotexas77
      8 years ago

      Sounds rite to me I'm bicurious and I think he needs to lick your ass for a long time if he could get his tongue in it and just eat it I bet it will work I'm 47 years old and I want your problem I want me a big dick guy 18 to 50 I have sucked couple and got fucked by couple but nothing worth telling besides the one I should of got fucked by
      I had a guy that was huge try to first he licked my ass for long time then he relaxed went half soft and then he got it in me I was so glad then that he got off in about 30 seconds he never got all the way hard I'm glad but I'm not I'm really wanting laid now and have been for weeks, but God he was huge like 14 inches and thick like my ankle I could barely get my mouth around the head of I. I wish I had a guy here now. I had a buddy that would stick his nice cock n my mouth every time our wife's turned their head he had a sweat cock and he sucked mine good to but his wife made him stop coming,g around she thought my wife was sucking him or something guess he didn't want her after we left my wife keep trying to get me to suck him she knew I was a little bit bisexual but she didn't know how much she was always trying to lick my ads and finger me she liked using dil does on me and I let her she had a strap on she would duck the he'll out of me with

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Very descriptive description dude bit still some worthy tips, so thanks.

      Just to let you know I'm a guy...

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago

    You probably need to be a lot more turned on before you try.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Like roleplay?
      We do make out for a few minutes but I still have the problem.

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    Maybe the bleeding is completely unrelated to the vigorous and powerful sodomising you underwent. You might actually have bowel cancer.

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    • sillygirl77
      8 years ago

      You're a jackass!

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      • Steve2
        8 years ago

        Well, that was rude.

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        • sillygirl77
          8 years ago

          It was well deserved. Everything that I've read that you posted is downright jackassery!

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago

            I agree, when I see people like this I just pity them and ignore. The funny thing is how he think he's funny.

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        • skilful_soldier2
          8 years ago

          You are a fat asshole.

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    • skilful_soldier2
      8 years ago

      You are a fat asshole.

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  • danodan7108
    8 years ago

    Find out if he has any friends with a small dick to loosen you up

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  • Rihyae
    8 years ago

    I'm not an expert but I would try training with different sized butt plugs.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      That's actually not a bad idea. I rather try that instead of a dildo.

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      • geb
        8 years ago

        Try a broom stick or a tolit plunger. Ram that up his ass a few times.

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        8 years ago

        It really isn't a bad one. When done properly it's a foolproof method:

        http://www.ebay.com/itm/Healthy-Vibes-Classic-Anal-Sex-Trainer-Toy-Butt-Plug-Dildo-Small-Medium-Large-/271993316436?var=&hash=item3f5410a454:m:mlV4LOUBUCFAlnJiiXn5k3w

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Yeah why not, seems made to help with that anyway and not just pleasure. Thanks for the link.

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          • Cuntsiclestick
            8 years ago

            You're welcome.
            :)

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    If it's bleeding he's not doing it right: did you use lube?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Yeah I used enough to cover him. Like a small spoon amount.

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