Is it normal that i can't get into sex unless i have "satisfied" my gf first?

I can't stand my gf or whoever I'm with to not get off before me... It's like a real major thing for me.... She MUST come first, figuratively and literally... If not I lose interest in it, and want to stop.... I dnt have trouble satisfying her, but she take some MEDS sometimes that makes it almost impossible for her to get off. She wants me to get mine n will do it anyway, but I just have no interest if she isn't satisfied first.

Is It Normal?
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  • I understand you, you are feeling that it is mostly your priority to be the one satisfying her that's normal but you have to accept that one way or another the opposite should happen

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  • Lol, I bet the ladies just LLOVE you! Idk tho, I always feel like... More accomplished if I get her off first. It's usually more difficult though, as she hasn't had anything to warm her up before hand. and making a woman come vaginaly with ur dick is usually more difficult than just eating her out and getting at her g spot with ur fingers afterward.

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  • I like to go down on my wife and get her to orgasm first (and second),then we usually finish off with me fucking her cunt and cumming inside her, sometimes if she is spent I have to wank myself over her, shooting my load onto her tits (or, rarely, her arse). But the general principle is 'she cums first'.

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  • I totally get that... And get "mine" too... She is so so giving that way... But I'm just not fullfiled unless she is first.... I've always been this way.

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