Hey, I have always wonderd am I the only person that thinks this way, glad to know I'm not alone on this issue. I do find women attractive and get very turned on by the thoughts of my partner having sex with me and another woman, usually it's a person I have imagined in my head. He knows nothing about it, to be honest i am embarressed to even mention it, we are together 3 years. I just think that he would be weirded out by it, as he is not as sexual as me. I have told him that I find women attrractive, but that's as far as the conversation has went. I think he does be too shy to talk about them kinds of things. But yeah I can't orgasim unless I think of him having sex with another women. I don't feel disgusted with myself either, it's just the norm with me, has been with every partner I have been with really. I do wonder am I gay or bisexual, but the fact we have a child and are a family. I don't want to stir the pot either by opening up about all my fantasies. But then I do wonder if I did have a chat with him about my fantasies it could spice up our sex life. So confusing!
IIN that I can only orgasm if I imagine my boyfriend with another girl
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Hey, I have always wonderd am I the only person that thinks this way, glad to know I'm not alone on this issue. I do find women attractive and get very turned on by the thoughts of my partner having sex with me and another woman, usually it's a person I have imagined in my head. He knows nothing about it, to be honest i am embarressed to even mention it, we are together 3 years. I just think that he would be weirded out by it, as he is not as sexual as me. I have told him that I find women attrractive, but that's as far as the conversation has went. I think he does be too shy to talk about them kinds of things. But yeah I can't orgasim unless I think of him having sex with another women. I don't feel disgusted with myself either, it's just the norm with me, has been with every partner I have been with really. I do wonder am I gay or bisexual, but the fact we have a child and are a family. I don't want to stir the pot either by opening up about all my fantasies. But then I do wonder if I did have a chat with him about my fantasies it could spice up our sex life. So confusing!