Is it normal that i can never get into a relationship even though i want one?

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I've been asked out plenty of times, but each time something comes over me and I reject them. I know they are good people, and we always start off as friends, but I never try to get into a relationship. I also have this weird habit of only seeing the bad, and when I can manipulate them too easily they stop being interesting to me. I also enjoy playing with men's feelings because it's so easy. Even guys I initially like suddenly become disinteresting to me. My friends all tell me "you haven't found the right guy" but I don't know if I ever will. What should I do?

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  • Rufus
    11 years ago | pl

    Get a job, that's what.

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  • me999
    11 years ago | pl

    Yeeees! I do the same thing!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    I've been in your shoes. Maybe you're afraid of love. That's why you only see the bad in people, so you can convince yourself that they wont hurt you. I'll give you some advice my friend told me. Focus on the good in people but don't let them manipulate you.

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  • crazyladii
    11 years ago | pl

    Grow up your not ready for a relationship you want to play high school games... Remember what goes around comes around

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  • aussiewolf
    11 years ago | pl

    just go casual with them. you dont have to be official or anything.

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  • Kenzy
    11 years ago | pl

    yes I totally believe it's normal. I have the same issues I dont know if it's because I always see the bad in myself as well with the other person. But I try in relationships but I'm always scared. I dont know if it's because ive been hurt multiple times or if that's just who I am. But you are not alone in you worrys

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