Is it normal that i am unhappy when my husband's gf cant keep their date?

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We have been married for several years. I have introduced my husband to a friend with whom he has sex with on a semi regular basis. Is it normal for me to be offended when she cancels their "date"? I think I take it personal. Like...how dare she not F*%# my man. He is very good at his job according to both of us and I kinda like that fact. He takes care of business with me prior to leaving and again when they are finished. Yes...he is a freak... No...no threesome with her. I just enjoy that my husband can make her week a little better and it pumps him up also.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago | pl

    I agree. You are serious about fucking him, she should be just as serious.

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  • (.)(.)boobies
    9 years ago | pl

    In an open relationship like yours it makes sense that you would feel that way. You and your husband must have a strong relationship.

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  • unrecognizable91
    9 years ago | pl

    Why are you MARRIED?

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    • SpoiledPrincess
      9 years ago | pl

      I am married because we are truly deeply in love. Always have been and always will be. We married because we love each other not because sex is awesome. It is just sex with her...a marriage would not last long on this alone. Are you married? I am insecure about tons of things but never...ever about our love for each other. He is mine and I am his. We would not still be together if our marriage was based on just sex. That is available ANYWHERE.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    9 years ago | pl

    ...Okay.

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  • urnn
    7 years ago | pl

    like you my desire for my spouse to have sex with others and me but I dont lust out for uthers, so I too get frustrated when wifes bf cancells.

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  • Garygiblin007
    9 years ago | pl

    Why don't you find a guy other that your husband to pleasure you its only fare

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    • SpoiledPrincess
      9 years ago | pl

      My question was not about being fair..it was about feeling angry when she has to cancel. I never said I didn't have a friend also, did I?

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      • green_boogers
        9 years ago | pl

        Do you have a friend? (Just trying to get the big picture.)

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        • SpoiledPrincess
          9 years ago | pl

          GB...yes I do.

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          • green_boogers
            9 years ago | pl

            My sense is that a good swinger party would fix things. You both go home feeling well fucked. The stars seem to shine a bit brighter as you fall asleep in your own bed.

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            • SpoiledPrincess
              9 years ago | pl

              The situation we have is beneficial to all parties and we are able to remain friends outside this "situation". Dinner, movies, swimming. I am far too insecure to meet strangers for sex. I wouldn't mind watching;) Our friends are not married and do not spend anytime together.
              PS...I am always well fucked...lol

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  • Crvsades
    9 years ago | pl

    Sounds too good to be true.

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