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I am really close with my boyfriend and we have done everything sexually besides sex and him going down on me. I think I am mostly nervous because i'm a little uncomfortable with my vagina and because i don't know what to do/say while he's doing it. is this normal? please help.
If you're not comfortable with your own vagina, then you're too young to be getting laid in the first place.
Yes that might hurt your ego but it's the truth.
You need to take matters into your own hands and at your own pace. Have a nice bath, light some candles, play soft music... and just explore yourself.
If you cannot do this without shame, then you aren't ready for more.
And if you aren't ready then it's not going to be good. You cannot expect your partner to perform well when you yourself aren't comfortable with your own body.
You need to be comfortable enough to tell him exactly where you want to be touched and how.
No sex no oral but basically everything sexual? Wtf? I just wanna know what else there is!
It's normal. I think most girls aren't comfortable with themselves down there.
You might find it gross, but he definitely doesn't.