Is it normal that i am scared to give a blow job?

I have never given one and I am way too scared to do so. Not necessarily because I'm disgusted by it, but I am scared of not doing it right. From what I have heard, it is much more complicated than just sucking. It's this weird fear of disappointing someone and failing, but for some reason it's a bigger fear when it comes to oral sex. Is this normal?
and hey, since we're on the topic.. any tips? Lol.

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  • RoseIsabella

    First world problems.

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  • dom180

    It's not complicated and definitely not difficult. I think it'd take something pretty extreme to do it badly. Everyone likes it different, just communicate with your partner. Chances are even they aren't sure exactly what they like.

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  • dirtybirdy

    How are your skills with a filet knife?

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    • thegypsysailor

      And now they're gone, gone gone. They may never drop again! "Picture NOT appreciated", he said with legs crossed tightly.
      You are on a roll this evening.

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      • dirtybirdy

        Well I mean it takes years of practice to perfectly prepare poisonous puffer that is palatable for people. Sheesh!

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        • RoseIsabella

          THE BIRD IS THE WORD!!!

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          • dirtybirdy

            The almighty avian alliterator always allocates awesomeness ;)

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  • Aries

    tell him to shave and maintain himself there .. it will make things easier . I also second the licking of the balls ... don't ignore them :) they feel good too but I wouldn't be scared to begin giving oral sex as you will get better with time and practice , there are many guides and advice online I am sure and also a male wont be upset with your attempt , they will probably be excited to help teach you and get a custom experience . I would suggest starting slow , teasing with your tongue softly up and down the cock , the balls and also licking and sucking on the underside of his cock below the head ,a small area of skin ( may appear as a tiny scar ) the frenulum .. its sensitive . I would suggest learning how to work his cock with your head and suck him off in a coordinated fashion as to help him cum easier :) stroke him while you lick his balls can be good too ... a good tip would be when he responds well to something , keep it going as if you slow down the pace or change up it could set him back in his climax just like with females . If you feel real adventurous , lick his asshole , extra points . try different methods and speeds and just make sure you work his cock real gentle and be consistent . that's a start .... the rest is for you to learn and figure out ! have fun

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  • Redcoats

    Trust me, he'll be too excited to even realize if you've made a mistake or not. If he criticizes you, then he's just a dick and not worth your time.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    Well...I'm positive for mankind oral sex comes in first place when we speak about sex. Probably more important for men than for women but still as long as I'm concerned.
    You don't have to be afraid of anything. Ask him to guide you, almost all guys like that.
    Don't forget you must take also pleasure out of it. Many women get good orgasms doing it and if so its a great pleasure for both.
    Some porn will give you a good picture.

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  • Ellenna

    Ask him how he likes it and don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with, start off slowly and for a short time

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  • penisprisoner

    good or bad i just appreciate someone doing that to me

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  • Lick the balls is my tip don't ignore them.. :)

    Don't be afraid you can always just be honest and say hey this is my first time guide me etc.

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  • do it enjoy it and swallow my wife had a hard time at first now loves to

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  • IJDHE

    Dont put teeth on lip. The guy would love it no matter how bad u r

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  • Nokiot9

    It's not THAT hard. Yes there are many nuances you can throw around, deep thoating, licking balls, tongue flicking, all kinds of goodies, but on the general, most guys are pretty easy to get off orally. Just suck, move your mouth and tongue up and down as you do it and get ur hand on the shaft and jerk while you're doing it. Go watch some porn and watch a pro do it, you'll pick it up just from watching, I'm sure.

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  • LizardSkin

    Just don't drag your teeth on it. That's the only rule.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    I've found it is far easier than eating a girl out. Don't worry, you'll do fine. I figured it out in a few minutes.

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    • Aries

      I think she want's the autumn blow job guide 101 .

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  • Aries

    sorry , work his cock with your hand ****** do this while sucking him and find a good rhythm , this will help make him cum after he is teased , pleased and real worked up . While I am here still , theres no such thing as too much tongue , work his cock with it , the texture and feel of it on a penis is amazing .

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    • peterr2

      You can suck me off anytime...

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      • Aries

        don't fucking kill me LOL

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  • mystery7

    tell him its your first time. He will help you and guide you if he's a considerate lover. It might be a turn on for him to know its your first time

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  • Arm0se

    Don't spit it out. Either swallow it or don't let him finish in your mouth. Also mind that tip. Oh god don't put your teeth on that tip :/

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