I was going through a difficult time with my most recent ex, so we took a break for about two weeks. After that we started dating again and I founf texts on her phone from a guy she worked with saying he wanted to f**K her all day and all night long. I confronted her about it and said he was just a friend. I said that friends don't send those kind of things. She disagreed. We split up and she came back a week later to get her stuff. Whilst she was upstairs I saw texts on her phone from him asking when he could 'have' her again. She'd slept with him the afternoon we'd split up. I stormed out and drove to see a friend but had to stop as I was shaking so much. I've never felt like that before and never want to again. We got back together a few months later but I didn't trust her. I asked her if she'd seen him after the incident and she said no it was just the one time. She had a new phone and mine was broken so she lent me her old one. Low and behold there were texts on there between them. They had only broken up after we got back together. She was now close with this guys best friend. When I came down for the weekend she put him before me. I picked my case and walked out. Now she's had a kid with him. Mkes me think was she sleeping with him whilst we were trying to get back together.
I'm glad now that I walked away. I couldn't stop thinking of her with him or trust her. Then when I found out she'd lied to me again and went with his best friend I realised I'd made the right decision.
Take what you want from my story but a lack of trust will affect your relationship. If you can't forgive or forget then walk away. It will hurt, but a lot less than if you got married and found out he had been unfaithful.
IIN that I am in love with my boyfriend and I want to leave him?
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I was going through a difficult time with my most recent ex, so we took a break for about two weeks. After that we started dating again and I founf texts on her phone from a guy she worked with saying he wanted to f**K her all day and all night long. I confronted her about it and said he was just a friend. I said that friends don't send those kind of things. She disagreed. We split up and she came back a week later to get her stuff. Whilst she was upstairs I saw texts on her phone from him asking when he could 'have' her again. She'd slept with him the afternoon we'd split up. I stormed out and drove to see a friend but had to stop as I was shaking so much. I've never felt like that before and never want to again. We got back together a few months later but I didn't trust her. I asked her if she'd seen him after the incident and she said no it was just the one time. She had a new phone and mine was broken so she lent me her old one. Low and behold there were texts on there between them. They had only broken up after we got back together. She was now close with this guys best friend. When I came down for the weekend she put him before me. I picked my case and walked out. Now she's had a kid with him. Mkes me think was she sleeping with him whilst we were trying to get back together.
I'm glad now that I walked away. I couldn't stop thinking of her with him or trust her. Then when I found out she'd lied to me again and went with his best friend I realised I'd made the right decision.
Take what you want from my story but a lack of trust will affect your relationship. If you can't forgive or forget then walk away. It will hurt, but a lot less than if you got married and found out he had been unfaithful.