Is it normal that i am afraid of my own penis?

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This is not as bad as it sounds. I have no trouble using the toilet or showering. I become afraid when I see my penis in a mirror. It's average size, and looks typical. But, it looks out of place to me, like it doesn't belong there and like it has a mind of its own.

What can I do? Pick the answer you think would be most helpful.

Stay away from mirrors.	7
Go wank. Wanking is normal.	10
Hang around nude in locker rooms until you get used to it.	4
Work on losing your virginity.	6
Consider looking at gay porn occasionally.	8

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Iszzy123

4 years ago

Donate to charity and raise awareness about recycling you fucking wanker

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McBean

4 years ago

Sounds like an unconscious sense of shame. Why don't you try wanking in a mirror? Be bold.

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- UsedTamponCollector
  
  4 years ago
  
  I love wanking in the mirror..... or at least I did once when I was tripping major balls! Don't do it normally, but there was one time a few years ago when I did this while tripping my ass off and it was great honestly! Not sure why I did this, but I was just so taken with my reflection..... and since nobody was around to possibly walk in on me, I spent at least an hour wanking it to my reflection!
  
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- RoseIsabella
  
  4 years ago
  
  Sounds like something a gay guy would do. I had a gay friend in college who said he did that.
  
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  - BleedingPain
    
    4 years ago
    
    I just texted my friend and he confirmed it as well 🤔
    
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    - McBean
      
      4 years ago
      
      Interesting. I hereby retract my suggestion.
      
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  - McBean
    
    4 years ago
    
    Like it or not, most men wank to porn.
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      4 years ago
      
      My father doesn't, and I think there are plenty of men who don't. I think that the internet oftentimes serves to normalize unhealthy, and disordered thinking. The internet oftentimes normalizes things that are unhealthy, immoral, inappropriate, and just downright stupid.
      
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      - Feedthepony
        
        4 years ago
        
        Your father doesn't strum while looking at porn? How do you know ? Did you ask him? If you did fair play to you, and his denial is obviously genuine.
        
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        Resurgam53
        
        4 years ago
        
        My question exactly!
        
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      - McBean
        
        4 years ago
        
        Yes of course. IIN is no exception. I think your father wouldn't like it here.
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        Yeah, he would probably say this place is full of a bunch of God damn hooples, and degenerates.
        
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Clunk42

4 years ago

Where is the "get over it" choice? It sounds to me like you should just stop worrying about how your penis looks. Also, everyone knows all penises have minds of their own.
"Sometimes your meat just gets big for no reason!" -Birdman (Youtuber, not rapper)

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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

A penis is a terrifying thing. One minute it’s short and wrinkly and the next minute it’s long and stiff, it’s like it has a mind of its own.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Thank you for understanding.
  
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jasperoliver

4 years ago

would you be more comfortable you had a vagina?
if yes explore the idea of it.

do you ever feel that you'll ever feel comfortable with sex?
if no then depending on your age you might be asexual, otherwise give it time don't force yourself to be accustomed to it just let it happen naturally.

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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

Maybe you're transgendered?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Nope. The thought of men makes me puke.
  
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  - Feedthepony
    
    4 years ago
    
    The thought of men makes you puke? You must have a difficult life.
    
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    So do you feel like a woman trapped in a man's body?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Nope.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        Why do you think you are afraid of your own body?
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        I don't know. I thought perhaps someone could help me understand.
        
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Doesnormalmatter

4 years ago

Have sex and then we'll talk!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I put a profile on Ashley Madison. I said I love to kiss, and want you to break me in your own way. None of the girls responded. I think it is because I am 25 years old, so they think something is wrong because I am too old.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    Ashley Madison is a site for married people looking to cheat on their spouses.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      And a site for married women to break in a single guy to be a more sensitive lover than her slam bang husband. I was told that married women looking to cheat on insensitive spouses, often like virgin men.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        I understand where you're coming from, and what you might hope to gain from such an arrangement, but that doesn't make adultry any less wrong, and immoral. You should save yourself for a decent woman that you love, and who loves you instead of planning to give yourself away to a woman who wants to do something so awful as to cheat on her husband with you!
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        I can see that although you have vast and extensive sexual experience, that you have zero comprehension of the word desperation. That's zero with a "z". The clock is ticking. Finding a woman that loves me is not going to happen when I can't even find a woman that will talk to me.
        
        Many married women have made a mistake. They need confirmation before they act on their feelings because divorce is more final than marriage. In this way, she may decide to put more effort and commitment into her marriage, or end it with more confidence.
        
        Your moralism stinks. Often, affairs are terrible. Sometimes, they simply confirm that vows were based on nothing more than delusions.
        
        I am DESPERATE. What do you want me to do, shoot up a shopping mall?
        
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  - Doesnormalmatter
    
    4 years ago
    
    Lol 25 is not too old at all, the problem with you, is that you expect online dating to get you laid! Per unit of effort, pursuing women in real life is WAYYYY more effective.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      WAYYYY more effective after you have been laid. I was hoping a wall flower girl would meet me at a bar so she could exert her power over me.
      
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      - Doesnormalmatter
        
        4 years ago
        
        So your telling me what works to get laid? Whose the virgin between us again? I forgot. Online dating works great for women who just wanna get laid but for me it works much worse.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        1. I don't know what works for me because I am a virgin.
        2. I know what works for other non-virgins vs virgins because I have made my own observational surveys.
        
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