Is it normal that i am 31 and in love with a 15 year old

As long as you don't exploit her in a sexual way, who cares?

Love knows no boundaries. Age is not a limiting factor to love, but age will slam reality hard into you. If you think it will last then go ahead. But to warn you, if you're found to be involved in a sexual relationship with a 15 year old you will be prosecuted.

If you really love her, I won't blame you. But keep the relationship innocent and keep your testesterone under control.

i think it's normal. it doesn't happen frequently, but you cant really stop your heart from loving someone. age doesnt matter to love a person. i know lots of people who are married when they have like 25 year age difference. good luck :)

Silverlenses4 has given really good advice. Ignore the people who just shout "OMG SICK PEDO".

Yeah I guess it's normal but just don't engage in any sexual contact dude or you'll be known as a pedo! Other than that just carry on.

that must be what love feels like, because it deffinatly sounds like it. and as for age it shouldent matter if thats how you feel towards this girl. but just to be safe keep it on the down low or your look like a pedophile, but later on in life when she turns 20 you will be 36? and that wouldent look as bad even though its not.

Awww..dont make love to her til' she turns 18. I wish i was loved by someone

i think that it is not normal. but its not sick or twisted. Youre not having sex and you obviously respect her. but this is a very sticky situation.

it wont last,now the age diference is bearable but imagin 20 years from now youll be 51 shelll be 35 she wil probaby loose interest

What a difficult situation to be in. Your feelings seem very sincere and I'm sure they are. As long as you're not sexually active with this girl until she's of legal age I don't see much harm coming from it, other than you getting deeply hurt when she does meet someone else and fall in love with them. Girls this young tend to be fickle with their emotions. Not out of choice, but it's something that happens as they grow up. Feelings towards people change as one matures. Although everything about this situation is wrong on the level that you're so much older and she's really still a baby - it seems pedophillic in a sense - at the same time it's very sad, especially since you're cogniscent of the fact that you cannot have sexual relations with her and that is obviously not what your feelings are about. You are right, we can't help who we love and when we're past a certain age, it stops mattering to a certain degree, but right now, it matters a whole lot. Proudfear is right, what happens in 20 yrs? Your bodies will be on different levels - yours will be winding down for one thing and hers just starting to heat up. I would seriously suggest you tread very carefully with this situation.

On a more positive note, I know a couple - for the past 15 years now, she was only 14 when a man took her in - she was a runaway from a messed up family - and he was much older. Everyone thought it was sick and weird, but they're still together today and very much in love. He has never mistreated her, but rather uplifted her from a bad situation.

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Some of you guys are over thinking this, in this day of era it's unlawful to have relations with a person(s) below 18 years. But love is not implied by age but by how one feels for another. Heck if you want to call someone a pedo talk about the (I believe) a roman king (can't remember exactly) who took the liberty of deflowering every female in his empire (any age he pleased). Over the course of his reign he had sex with over 3,000 females. The more you know.

Humbert Humbert.

If you love her that much you can wait three years. If not, have fun in jail when it goes sour and she reports you.

god :O

.. ya, i would show concern. probably enough of it to call the cops. you sick fuck. she's a child. barely have her reproductive organs developed.

You're gettiing very close to pedophilia. Give her a chance to grow up. She's a child. Get away from her.

Get away from her now. This can only end badly!!! How can you be in love with a 15 year old. Its just sick, sorry. I dont care how much you think you respect her or that your not sexual with her its twisted. Go get with someone of legal age(preferably someone that does not have the word teen attached to their age.

you sick cunt. well done sir