I also feel like that but it doesn't really bother me. If it makes you feel any better here's a true story that you may relate to in a few years:
Once upon a time, I was a nerd with hot friends in high school. Everyone was picking up or flirting with guys and I tried it out but all the guys had better looking girls to pick from, I am extremely average looking so I understand why, so I sat on the sidelines.
After I graduated, all of my hot friends went off to University. Here I am, a year later, and my friends are back from University. But they're all 10-20 pounds heavier. I've lost 30 pounds since graduation and I haven't even tried to lose weight, and a lot of guys that I thought were always out of my reach in high school are the ones trying to pick me up at parties and flirting with me now.
Basically; high school is a place where shallow-ness and aesthetics are used to manipulate hormonal teenagers. It' like a big science experiment. You may be an extremely attractive, very likeable girl, but if there's a girl who has bigger breasts and dresses nicer, you know who's going to get the attention. The good part about high school is that people like you are the girls who become desirable once everyone grows the fuck up and graduates. Then, you'll just show up to a party as usual and suddenly all the guys are looking at you like they've never seen you before, and they want to talk to you.
It's really strange, but it happens. Hold your head up, your beautiful, and a shallow list of "hot girl" listed off by a drunk guy isn't going to change that.
IIN that I always feel like the ugly duckling around my friends?
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I also feel like that but it doesn't really bother me. If it makes you feel any better here's a true story that you may relate to in a few years:
Once upon a time, I was a nerd with hot friends in high school. Everyone was picking up or flirting with guys and I tried it out but all the guys had better looking girls to pick from, I am extremely average looking so I understand why, so I sat on the sidelines.
After I graduated, all of my hot friends went off to University. Here I am, a year later, and my friends are back from University. But they're all 10-20 pounds heavier. I've lost 30 pounds since graduation and I haven't even tried to lose weight, and a lot of guys that I thought were always out of my reach in high school are the ones trying to pick me up at parties and flirting with me now.
Basically; high school is a place where shallow-ness and aesthetics are used to manipulate hormonal teenagers. It' like a big science experiment. You may be an extremely attractive, very likeable girl, but if there's a girl who has bigger breasts and dresses nicer, you know who's going to get the attention. The good part about high school is that people like you are the girls who become desirable once everyone grows the fuck up and graduates. Then, you'll just show up to a party as usual and suddenly all the guys are looking at you like they've never seen you before, and they want to talk to you.
It's really strange, but it happens. Hold your head up, your beautiful, and a shallow list of "hot girl" listed off by a drunk guy isn't going to change that.