At your age, it's normal to be tempted and to have crushes on other people while in a relationship. You're young, and your hormones want you to sow your wild oats. But if you feel like you can't stop yourself from cheating with these other men, then there may be a problem. Do you have trouble with saying no to others, or making decisions? If you grew up with unusually strict parents, it may be that you're not used to having freedom to choose for yourself, so you struggle to commit to one guy.
I agree with the others that seeing a therapist and avoiding committed relationships would be wise for the time being. If you still want to date, keep it casual. It sounds like you have already taken positive steps by recognizing the problem, and cutting ties with the guy you cheated with. Awareness is the first step. Good luck!
IIN that I always cheat on boyfriends, no matter how much I like them?
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At your age, it's normal to be tempted and to have crushes on other people while in a relationship. You're young, and your hormones want you to sow your wild oats. But if you feel like you can't stop yourself from cheating with these other men, then there may be a problem. Do you have trouble with saying no to others, or making decisions? If you grew up with unusually strict parents, it may be that you're not used to having freedom to choose for yourself, so you struggle to commit to one guy.
I agree with the others that seeing a therapist and avoiding committed relationships would be wise for the time being. If you still want to date, keep it casual. It sounds like you have already taken positive steps by recognizing the problem, and cutting ties with the guy you cheated with. Awareness is the first step. Good luck!