Is it normal that i’m seeing my lesbian neighbor that’s older than me

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I’m an 18-year old woman about to graduate high school and living with my mom. My girlfriend is 38, living by herself, and mom and her were once friends. Mom is 40. Been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months but mom doesn’t know. My girlfriend wants me to live with her sometime after graduating. I really want to but idk how mom will feel. My girlfriend said that I’m an adult and should make my own decision.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago | pl

    If you are happy, I think that's great. You should do what makes you happy 😊😊😊

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      Really? I think so too. She’s the first person that I’ve ever had sex with and she’s amazing. She treats me like an adult and a queen.

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  • LionsMane
    5 years ago | pl

    That's terrible and unhealthy. Assuming you have no major handicaps, you are holding yourself back from growing and meeting people closer to your age and getting more out of life

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      She’s so good for me though.

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago | pl

      What is unhealthy about a mutual loving relationship?? What a bunch of crap. She is happy. It's completely ok and normal.

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      • LionsMane
        5 years ago | pl

        She is barely out of high school. It's retarded

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        • nikkiclaire
          5 years ago | pl

          No, it's really not.

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          • LionsMane
            5 years ago | pl

            Oh well. I'm tired of talking about it. You're not going to change

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago | pl

              Shes great to me and I’m happy with her. I’d rather be with her than my mom and I don’t want to lose her.

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  • RavenStarr
    5 years ago | pl

    You should definitely follow your heart :) Heck I was thinking about moving to the UK for my summer fling girlfriend for 3 days... Then we had a fall out and naturally I stayed here xD

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      Thank you! You don’t think that I’m too young and she’s too old for me?

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      • RavenStarr
        5 years ago | pl

        Hell no... If you think she isn't too old then who are we to say she is... Your girlfriend, your heart, your decision :) I say go for it, hun

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          I’ve never been intimate with anyone but her. I think about her all of the time. She’s my world.

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          • RavenStarr
            5 years ago | pl

            Awww I remember when I was in love like that... Well the only thing I can say is listen to your heart and don't let anyone get in your way :) Why are you afraid of telling your mom though?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago | pl

              Just not sure if she’ll accept me with her former friend that’s nearly her age. And that I want to move in with her and leave my mom. But I listen to my girlfriend’s advice. I like when she helps me make a decision.

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago | pl

    that will get old fast .

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    As you said, you're an adult and can make your own decisions! I think it's terrific that you've found someone that makes you happy and fulfills your desires! I, too, have a lovely, wonderful lover that I love with all my heart...and the sex is MAGNIFICENT!😜 We're both bisexual!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      I’m happy for you! I’m just worried how my mom will accept this. I listen to my girlfriend more than my mom and I know that she’s 20 years older than me. She makes almost all of the decisions for me.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago | pl

        I believe it will all work out for you!

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