Is it normal that i’m pan but have never been in a relationship?

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So, I’m a 19 year old female and my sexual orientation is pansexual. But the thing is, even if I do feel attraction towards people of all genders etc, whenever I get this stupid ass question : “So, have you had sexual experiences with people of all genders? Is that how you know?” And this just ticks me off cause like, I don’t need to have fucked a 100 different people to know my sexuality, right? I mean, I’m a virgin(no reason behind it, I just haven’t been interested in relationships) and I’ve only kissed one guy in my life back when I was like 14 I think, but what’s weird is, I’ve never really wanted to be that intimate with somebody. Like I have had people ask me to be their girlfriend etc but I’ve never felt actual attraction towards any person that I’ve met. Like, wth am I asexual or are my standards just too high for anybody to compete?

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    With no experience you don't know. Get out there and experiment. Follow safe sex rules.

    If the thought of having sex is a turn off then perhaps you're asexual.

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  • jethro
    5 years ago

    I think your problem is that you are a narcissist. That is why no gender or specific person provides you with any interest.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    So, are you interested in both.
    Or
    Neither?
    From your post you're to inexperienced to know what you like.
    Get out there and experiment.
    You'll soon know what you like.
    a stallion cock rubbing your lips while 2 Spanish girls tongue bathe you is a good place to start.

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  • angryblonde
    5 years ago

    Throw their logic back at them. Be like “So I’m guessing you didn’t actually know for sure that you were straight until you had sex for the first time, right?”

    If you would consider dating a trans person under the right circumstance, you are pansexual. It doesn’t matter if you’re a virgin or not. You can be pansexual and just not ready to be with someone yet.

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