Is it normal that i’m not attracted to women my age since my mom molested me

I’m a 19-year old guy. My mom kind of seduced me when I was 14. I just didn’t stop her because the more that she did to me, the more that I liked it. About s year later, she started a relationship with a woman and soon they wanted me to join them. I really didn’t feel like I was doing anything wrong and wasn’t ashamed. It seemed natural and still does. I’m still getting with my mom and her gf. But I’m not attracted to girls my age at all, only older women. Has this corrupted my mind?

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  • That’s not right for your mom to do if she started “seducing” you when you were only 14. I’d consider that a form of grooming, and it was definitely child sexual abuse.
    If incest is between two consenting adults, even though it makes me a bit uncomfortable, I don’t really see a problem with it. But your mother brainwashed you as a child so you wouldn’t see anything wrong with it, and that’s fucked up.

    As for your question, I’d say that your mom has “corrupted your mind”, but there’s nothing wrong with liking older women. Many guys like older women, groomed as children or not. It’s your preference, but I really don’t think what your mom did was right.

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    • GROOMING ARE YOU KIDDING, IT'S WORSE THAN GROOMING, IT'S FUCKING OUTRIGHT CHILD SEX ABUSE. Grooming is drawing people in with the intention of abusing, harming or radicalising them. It's gone well beyond that the abuse is already happening, apparently has been for some time, and the kid thinks it's normal. The mother needs locking up and throw away the key. Don't know where this is happening, but here in the UK child sex abuse and incest are both serious criminal offences.

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    • I really don’t feel like we are doing anything wrong, especially because we’ve been doing it so long. I get extra turned on when mom says things like, “mommy wants to suck out all of my boys cum.” My friends aren’t getting this.

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      • I think you are either trolling, or your mom fucked you up so bad that you have no insight into how fucked this is.

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        • I think he’s trolling or this is his weird ass fetish. Why do you think he brought up that sudden quote about “mommy sucking up all of his cum” or whatever? Why do you think he is [most likely] downvoting the people who are trying to help him?

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          • That same quote is what made me think this is a troll post as well.

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      • Uh, TMI bud.
        Even if you didn’t feel like you were doing anything wrong, your mom did something wrong by grooming and sexually abusing a minor.
        You posted this to ask whether or not this is normal. We’re giving you our honest answers, and you continue to deny our advice. Do you want us to lie to you?

        EDIT: Got downvoted. Boy, I sure do wonder who did it!
        /s

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      • And your friends aren't getting this because you're living in a porn comic. And not one of the good ones.

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  • I don't think being with your mom and her GF really have anything to do with it. A lot of guys are just naturally attracted to older women. Just like a lot of younger women are attracted to much older men.

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  • It’s messed up but it’s okay to like older women

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  • Not normal seek help

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  • Shit shit!! sorry I accidentally pressed the normal but its no way in hell normal your mom is mentally Ill she & you both should get help

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    • I don’t see her as mentally ill. She’s been nothing but good to me and good for me.

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      • She isn't good to you or for you sure you dont see her as mentally ill coz you are too she made you this way or in other case which seems more realistic is that YOU ARE JUST MAKING IT UP & YOU ARE ADDICTED TO INCEST PORN & GAMES

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  • Stop “getting with” your mom and see a therapist, you’re going to have issues. A lot of issues.

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    • I don’t think that I can ever leave my mom.

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      • There’s your first identified issue.

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        • I almost feel like we’re married. And she also doesn’t want me looking for other women.

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  • Who voted this is normal? It is not normal to fuck your mom and your mom is fucked up for brain washing you.

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    • I voted it's normal that his mind is corrupted. Based on the wording, not sure how to read it any other way.

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    • I mean, it’s normal to like older women, it’s NOT normal for OP’s mom to groom him at a vulnerable, young age, so perhaps that is why people voted normal. There are multiple parts of this post that vary in normality, if that makes any sense.
      I just didn’t vote, I really don’t know what answer to put tbh.

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      • Agree. The situation is what is not normal.

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  • Now that your brain is fucked up, I see no problem. Just don't spread your perversions to anyone else.

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  • Dude, that's abuse! Your mom is a pedophile! I'm so sorry. She corrupted your innocence. You don't deserve that. What she's doing to you isn't safe.

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    • I don’t see my mom as that. We formed a bond and she’s my life.

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  • dont worry , they are hitting the wall , nature fixes all.

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  • It's normal to have this kind of reaction to abuse, but the situation itself is really not normal or okay. Seriously, I'd suggest seeing a therapist about this sort of thing (as other people have suggested). Especially since she "doesn't want you looking for other women".

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