One of the most common fantasies for men is two women together, so it's quite common for them to encourage it. Women are beautiful works of art, and culturally tend to be more physically and emotionally intimate with each other than men are, so it's no wonder you could find desire for another woman.
Don't feel like you have to label yourself a lesbian though. There are many possible combinations, and you have the right to change your interests as often as you like.
Some women get interested in other women, and lose interest in men.
I've known women who said they were straight, but "there was this one time..." where a certain specific woman just totally captivated them. But after her, they had no interest in other women.
I've known a number of women who said they found women most attractive, most sexually exciting, but really, really wanted to be in a relationship with a man. Different needs were being met by the different genders.
Then there are the bicurious women, heteroflexible women and bisexual women.
Don't feel the need to label yourself if you aren't ready, and don't leap to conclusions. Learn more about yourself and what you do and don't want. :)
Then we have a completely separate issue. You are no longer interested in having a relationship with your boyfriend, but you want his money. It sounds like you are deceiving him. I do not condone that. It is not fair to use people, for money, for sex or for something else.
Perhaps you are in, or can work out, a consensual relationship. Maybe the three of you will be together, but you interact differently with him than with your girlfriend. Perhaps he has a sugar daddy fetish and you can work that out. Perhaps you'll find some other solution.
But please don't deceive people and make them think they're in a relationship with you to get your money.
But do have fun exploring this new adventurous side of yourself with your girlfriend!
IIN that I’m a lesbian after my boyfriends pushed it
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One of the most common fantasies for men is two women together, so it's quite common for them to encourage it. Women are beautiful works of art, and culturally tend to be more physically and emotionally intimate with each other than men are, so it's no wonder you could find desire for another woman.
Don't feel like you have to label yourself a lesbian though. There are many possible combinations, and you have the right to change your interests as often as you like.
Some women get interested in other women, and lose interest in men.
I've known women who said they were straight, but "there was this one time..." where a certain specific woman just totally captivated them. But after her, they had no interest in other women.
I've known a number of women who said they found women most attractive, most sexually exciting, but really, really wanted to be in a relationship with a man. Different needs were being met by the different genders.
Then there are the bicurious women, heteroflexible women and bisexual women.
Don't feel the need to label yourself if you aren't ready, and don't leap to conclusions. Learn more about yourself and what you do and don't want. :)
Then we have a completely separate issue. You are no longer interested in having a relationship with your boyfriend, but you want his money. It sounds like you are deceiving him. I do not condone that. It is not fair to use people, for money, for sex or for something else.
Perhaps you are in, or can work out, a consensual relationship. Maybe the three of you will be together, but you interact differently with him than with your girlfriend. Perhaps he has a sugar daddy fetish and you can work that out. Perhaps you'll find some other solution.
But please don't deceive people and make them think they're in a relationship with you to get your money.
But do have fun exploring this new adventurous side of yourself with your girlfriend!