Totally normal if she would be a negative influence or a major negative impact on your life.
It's up to here to make friends in the world, and there are plenty of elderly groups for making such friends.
I suggest that you suggest that she gets involved with those groups. My mother generally refused to get involved with such social groups.
I did take care of her in the end; but only visited, handled her medical and financials, and finally spent the last 10 days of her life 24/7 with her when her body started to shut down.
I have zero regrets about not moving her in with me earlier, and about how I handled everything, despite that it cost me a job to assist her for the last 4 1/2 months of her life; and then arrange the funeral and wrap up her affairs.
She is involved with church groups etc but it's in the evening that's the problem whrn she hears noises. The neighbors are fed up going over there at 2 AM for nothing.
Thanks
IIN that I’d never move in with my mother?
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Totally normal if she would be a negative influence or a major negative impact on your life.
It's up to here to make friends in the world, and there are plenty of elderly groups for making such friends.
I suggest that you suggest that she gets involved with those groups. My mother generally refused to get involved with such social groups.
I did take care of her in the end; but only visited, handled her medical and financials, and finally spent the last 10 days of her life 24/7 with her when her body started to shut down.
I have zero regrets about not moving her in with me earlier, and about how I handled everything, despite that it cost me a job to assist her for the last 4 1/2 months of her life; and then arrange the funeral and wrap up her affairs.
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She is involved with church groups etc but it's in the evening that's the problem whrn she hears noises. The neighbors are fed up going over there at 2 AM for nothing.
Thanks