Is it normal that he never tries to undo my bra p, even during sex?

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We have been dating for a few months and have had sex a dozen times or so. Not once did he try to take my bra off during sex. I once got into bed completely naked and he didn't seem to freak out or anything.

His ex had bullemia, I wonder if this has something to do with it...he is an amazing g guy, but I wonder if he has ben scarred or something?

I would much rather if he undid my bra during sex, as opposed to me having to so it.... But should I strt doing it and see if he follows the next time?

He is a very passionate lover, which is why this confuses me by the way...

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  • JD777
    8 years ago | pl

    Hmmm, maybe he just doesn't want to look stupid fumbling with those confounded bra clasps. Next time you start to have sex, just ask him to take your bra off. As he does, tell him you like that he did it. If he has issues, they'll arise then and you can help him with it.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago | pl

    I too have a hatred for removing bras that clasp in the back. I remove them like the Incredible Hulk... very angry. "Hulk rip puny bra off!."

    In all seriousness buy those bras that unhook from the front. They're great. Unsnap, BAM!, boobies.

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  • 69lover
    8 years ago | pl

    I would never root my missus wearing anything! If it can come off it has to come off! I want skin and no fabric!

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago | pl

    Just tell him what you like. Simple.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago | pl

    I should have probably mentioned that even when I only have a singlet on (no bra) he still won't try to take it off....

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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago | pl

    I'll take your bra off, where are my scissors

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  • ArayaLioness
    8 years ago | pl

    You could ask him. Some men have trouble fumbling with the clasp, so they don't bother with it. Or he could have a bra fetish and like to see you wearing it.

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  • Mytwin295
    8 years ago | pl

    You'd be surprised at how many guys can't work a bra. I made my boyfriend practice because initially it took him a good 15 minutes to figure out how to un hook and re-hook my bra.

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  • yakfrost
    8 years ago | pl

    I usually start out with a back rub, so if there were any fumbling, it wouldn't be noticed.

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