Is it normal that guys don't find me hot, but girls do?

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Like 99% of the girls I talk to have said they re jealous of my body. Guys will comment on how skinny I am. Girls and guys will talk about how big my butt is. Girls will tell me my boobs look good. Girls also say they love my hair. With all of this, I assumed I'd be hot to guys, but when we played fuck marry kill and how far would you go at a party, people responded pretty low for me. I really just don't get it anymore. I don't know what else I can do. I've never even kissed a guy, and I'm 18.

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  • Unimportant
    7 years ago

    It's interesting. I think in general - and it is a wide generalization - men and women find different kinds of women attractive.

    There are certain common denominators, if a peron is just undeniably spectacularly beautiful, but other than that men often find a different kind of person attractive than women.

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  • Goku19
    7 years ago

    Show your photo from head to toe.

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  • darausnicht
    6 years ago

    I am a bisexual guy and in my goth punk years, I noticed the more androgynous and extreme I was, the more bisexual women were interested. It was weird. Bi dudes of course didn't respond to me because I hit the social goldmine with goth/punk and the Marilyn Manson, teen angsty, Satanic panic sort of put me in a place to be popular.

    When I was looking more like a guy (think, the Crow), I tended to attract an equal percentage of both men and women. The more pretty and effeminate I looked (Brian Molko from Placebo is close...) , the more I was chased from the bisexual women. And usually the really beautiful, barbie looking ones. I tend to come off as a former athlete etc in my work. IDK why.

    Are you a "nice girl" type?? That will put people off. I don't find that to be flattering with either gender. I find that there are places where I am great with finding other bi people and other places are like social hell for me because it's all gay and straight people.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I am like 100% then nice girl type so that makes so much sense. Thanks so much

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  • herpesfreesince93
    7 years ago

    The best way to get honest answers for your question would be to put a link to a picture of you in the comment section under "anonymous" and let dudes tell you what's up.

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  • Bighohnson
    7 years ago

    U have a hot lesbian sex appel that makes girls want u

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    • herpesfreesince93
      7 years ago

      Mmmmm sex apples....

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle
    7 years ago

    idk, maybe guys are just embarrased and dont really wanna reveal their feelings to you?

    because they're afraid of what you might think of them?

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