Is it normal that females scare me?

I was in an abusive relationship for 4 years. As a male dealing with this has been an extraordinary experience in itself but it seems apart from some uneasy dreams i am left complete terrified of women... Even my best friends partner fills me with a feeling of dread when i'm around. I have one female friend that i don't have that feeling with so does that mean my vibes a right to be off with other women i see?

Is It Normal?
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  • Yes, this is completely valid. You were (I'm assuming) traumatized by this past partner and I understand wanting to stay away from females because of it. Take care of yourself.

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  • It’s normal to fear women after a bad experience with one.

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  • Women are pretty fucking scary I'll give that bro.

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  • It's fine you had a really bad experience you are probably tramautized by it

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  • Its normal in your circumstance if you came from an abusive relationship otherwise not really. I was scared of tall women just shy or something. It took a little nerve to talk to one. One of my tall women friends is REALLY tall at 6'6" or more. She has to bend over to hug anyone. :)

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