It is normal, but not exactly healthy. Being angry helps a person feel like they're in control of a situation. The best thing to do is try to resolve the little problems when they arise as soon and as calmly as you can. Don't let them slide. This will lessen your list. Fortunately you already found the main problem is money.
Instead of feeling depressed you need to keep applying for better jobs, sell things on ebay or etsy on the side. I fought with my boyfriend almost daily about money and cried all the time. After 3 years of applying for better jobs (and giving up several times) I scored one and for once in my life I do not feel stressed about money. Screw the people that get handed everything in life, earning it is HARD but feels so much better!
IIN that everytime i get mad, all of my problems hit me at once?
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It is normal, but not exactly healthy. Being angry helps a person feel like they're in control of a situation. The best thing to do is try to resolve the little problems when they arise as soon and as calmly as you can. Don't let them slide. This will lessen your list. Fortunately you already found the main problem is money.
Instead of feeling depressed you need to keep applying for better jobs, sell things on ebay or etsy on the side. I fought with my boyfriend almost daily about money and cried all the time. After 3 years of applying for better jobs (and giving up several times) I scored one and for once in my life I do not feel stressed about money. Screw the people that get handed everything in life, earning it is HARD but feels so much better!