Is it normal that everyone thinks anal is so much better than vaginal?

Why do most people think anal intercourse is better than vaginal.
Is this a psychological thing or what? I'm no expert but I only ever go for that as a change not because its better. I wouldn't even care much if I never did it again. Maybe I'm like this because my first experiences of penetrative sex were anal. So to me it's no big deal. But IIN?

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  • notsaying4life

    I find it hard to believe that most people think so

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    • RoseIsabella

      I certainly don't think so. My back door is a one way street, and it's exit only.

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      • Are you a man? If not how would you know,?

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        • RoseIsabella

          Your post makes reference to "people", and therefore my response is valid as I am a person.

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    • Don't find it hard, just believe.

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    • But it is to most uyoug men.

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  • randypete

    I have been taking cock in my ass from the age of 13 and still love it bare

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    • That's great, but doesn't your vag get jealous?

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  • ncbymail

    Don't know about a pussy but it sure feels good to have another man fuck my asshole. I know I'd rather have a cock up my ass than my dick in my wife's pussy now.

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  • Emma95

    What poll did you see that said anal is preferred?

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  • Longcock48

    I love fucking a woman in the ass,a tight hole feels great pressed against my cock,and I blow bigger,harder loads

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  • momwatcher69

    First you said 'everyone', then you mentioned 'most'.
    The truth is, that anal sex is NOT enjoyed by a majority of most women, because it is painful, especially if done forcefully, impatiently, and without lubrication. Also if the toy or cock is way too large.
    For many it is 'taboo', or "dirty".
    Some women LOVE it, but MOST women don't. Just ask them.

    When it comes to men, and receiving anal sex, I don't have any knowledge/experience, so I can't comment, with any degree of certainty.

    Generally speaking, whether male or female, having an "object" or cock in your ass, can be pleasurable, painful, or neutral, depending the gentleness of the person doing it, and this is also when "size matters".

    The anus is 'tighter' than a vagina, so men like to have anal sex with a woman (or man). The sphincter muscle, absence of nautural lubrication, and a history of not being used for sex ("stretched out") are the reasons, why it's tighter, but also, more painful, than vaginal penetration.

    Speaking from personal experience, in life (as a man) I've had maybe 20 (female) sex partners.
    2 loved anal, as much or more, than vaginal penetration
    3 could "take it or leave it" after trying it, for the first time
    5 didn't want to do it a 2nd time, or asked me to stop, the 1st time
    10 hated it, or didn't even want to try it, for various reasons

    Note: For those of you who are wondering, about 13-14 of these women, were 1-nighters, or fuck-buddies, when I was a teenager through my mid 20's.
    The rest were relationships, lasting anywhere from 6 months to 7 years.

    This doesn't include my current significant other, and for privacy reasons, I don't/won't discuss it.

    SO, as you can see, anal sex is NOT the "preferred" method, of intercourse, among a majority of females.

    Always remember: NO means NO !

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    • thehalfgoodgirl

      anal is great if done right I love it

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      • momwatcher69

        I agree !

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        • thehalfgoodgirl

          have you had anal a female

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  • LauraVander40

    Anal sex does not feel better than than having a cock in your pussy. Some women feel better with one in there than others only because the gspot area is being stimulated and they are really excited first and they rub their clit and pussy while a cock is in their ass. I have had orgasms from just having it in my ass but lots of foreplay first working up to it. The fact is having anal sex is just because you want to play and be nasty.

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    • thehalfgoodgirl

      anal is great it makes me feel nasty and dirty it makes me orgasm

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      • Magicbeast

        Curious, have you used any sex toy's before you get anal or after, do you have a favorite size/thickness of toy.

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        • thehalfgoodgirl

          no just my finger

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  • Toledorwb

    In my marriage we have more anal sex. She likes it more and I’m not complaining

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    • But what about you? Its not all about what she wants in your imaginary marriage.

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      • Toledorwb

        Oh it’s not imaginary.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    I HIGHLY doubt that most people like anal more. Where did you get that from? You have to clear your bowels first and use lube and sometimes its painful. The pros are you don't need contraceptives and if the sex is tighter it would stimulate the penis better prolly. But no, most people don't like anal more.

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    • Its not just tighter, its just different. But defend fly it is more didireable to most men.

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        That's not true! Show me a source! Is that what your dad told you or what? I have had a lot of sex, and talked to literally DOZENS of guys about it irl and NOT A SINGLE ONE prefers anal sex, and many have never tried it because they don't see the point. You made a post asking if it's normal that everyone likes anal more, so you must be pretty confident that everyone likes anal more. So the show me a source!

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    • RoseIsabella

      Not using condoms is a great way to get HIV, the virus that causes AIDS.

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        I know but I don't care. Being a straight guy make me pretty safe because the receiver of anal sex is way more likely to get it than the one inserting. And a nice clean silicone strap-on gives me nothing to worry about if I'm ever on bottom. There will always be some risk but sometimes you gotta risk it for the biscuit.

        https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/analsex.html&ved=2ahUKEwjAxbCuy5LkAhVLDq0KHe7EDh8QFjAAegQIBhAB&usg=AOvVaw2Vn6LnhA8oIz6jt79KX4cp

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